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User Topic: How old was your WS when they cheated?
Deanna
♀ 26854
Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was 46.


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1476 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
Thessalian
♀ 40633
Member # 40633
Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

34


Me: BW, 30
Him: WH, 36

7 years of double-digit ONS, LTA, hookers - the works.

First found out: August 20, 2013
Whole truth: January 1, 2014


Posts: 168 | Registered: Sep 2013
HurtsButImOK
♀ 38865
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Most recent and final DD 35

Lied about and gaslit non stop from 20 though.


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
MissMovingOn
♀ 30720
Member # 30720
Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First time that I know of - 26.


Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
Multiple ddays since 2010 (Latest January 15th 2013) - not counting anymore!
FINAL FINAL DDay - August 8, 2014. I AM DONE!

Posts: 420 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: West Coast Canada
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From 39 to 40. Could that BE any more cliche??!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6693 | Registered: Jan 2011
Lowlow
♀ 38653
Member # 38653
Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ages 40 through 41. His AP was 28 through 29.

You said it, Rebreather, totally cliche.

[This message edited by Lowlow at 11:33 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]


Me (BS) 42 Him (FWS) 43
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 11 years, T 19 years
Reconciling

Posts: 256 | Registered: Mar 2013
emotionalgirl
♀ 40184
Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

48


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 373 | Registered: Aug 2013
cuppacoffee
♀ 39313
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

32

she was 22.


creepy.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

53


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20550 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Thefly559
♂ 40268
Member # 40268
Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was 37 when she got caught but who knows how long ? No truth or remorse ! Wouldn't believe it anyway


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 736 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
momentintime
♀ 16394
Member # 16394
Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 55, she was 33.


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 3018 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
maxandsen
♀ 37173
Member # 37173
Default  Posted: 1:12 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was the year he turned 50


Me: 40
FWH: 51
Married 12 years
DDay: Jan 2012
A: One year
S: 6 weeks before he pulled his head out
R: March 2012
On the bumpy road to happy

Posts: 70 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: USA
Saleschick
♀ 39772
Member # 39772
Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 46 (now 47) and she is in her early 40s

Posts: 72 | Registered: Jul 2013
hearthurts23
♀ 40448
Member # 40448
Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was 23


Me - BS 23
Him - WS 24
His drunk ONS - 8/5/13 (sex was not completed)
DDay - 8/18/13
Junior High Sweethearts: Eachother's first & only before this.
Together 8 years, married 3 years.
No kids for awhile if at all, both in college.

Posts: 15 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Texas
missyb32641
♀ 35656
Member # 35656
Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

21 and 41


ME: BS 42
Him FWH 44
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.

Posts: 275 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Florida
TrustGone
♀ 36654
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 3:32 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XWH#1- 23-45
WH#2 47


BW-52
WH#2-53
M-10 yrs T-12 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
DD#4-11/28/14 He ran off to be with OW after assaulting me
Divorcing

Posts: 2475 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
nomistakeaboutit
♂ 36857
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 4:44 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

42


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 968 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
Flatlined123
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:00 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

41-42


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 698 | Registered: Jun 2012
cantgetup
♀ 36146
Member # 36146
Default  Posted: 5:04 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Him 52 her 52. Both acting like high schoolers.

Posts: 319 | Registered: Jul 2012
NoAnswers37
♀ 40592
Member # 40592
Default  Posted: 5:09 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

29 - DDay was the day before his 30th....

But I would suspect his "behaviours" stretched throughout his 20s.


Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
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