for me to detach
There's the A, TT, manipulation, gas lighting, passive aggressiveness etc.
Then there's the false R
Then there's the breadcrumbs he keeps laying down to try and keep me interested enough for ego kibbles, the sad looks....the blame shifting, the bad mouthing.
There's the not being there for any of the antiversaries.
And then there's the trying to sneak small things out of the house while 'babysitting'. Admittedly he did tell me just before he left that he'd taken them, but there was no asking. But hey, he still absolutely denies that he's got an entitled attitude.
It get's easier each time he pulls stunts like this
And yet I'm still hoping that he'll get his head out of his arse...mind you, it's so far up there he can probably see daylight by now
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - Unremorseful passive aggressive blameshifter. Many EA's & at least 1 PA. Dday Aug 2012. Walked out April 2013. Demanded D, now stalling.
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him.