Sorry I've not been around much, but I've been moving on with my life. About three weeks ago I was fully divorced from my now Ex. I'm very glad it's over and I am already well on my way to a new life. I've bought a new home, got a promotion, got a certification , and have a steady relationship with a wonderful and loving woman.
It still surprises me how I can sometimes get those sad feelings. My coworker knows my wife and let me know at a lunch I held for my team that my ex now officially dating her boyfriend out in public. I am now with a woman who treats me so well with positive motivation and thoughtful gestures. I have discovered that my Ex was really not a great partner, as she was very selfish, abused me throughout our marriage, and is proving to be lazy as she does so much less with the kids now that I am gone. Even so, I had a moment of sadness when I realized we were apart now living separate lives. I'm very happy with my life right now, more than when I was married, frankly. I just don't get why I would still feel bad about my old marriage being over. Weird, huh?