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So, I was asked what kinda trouble I like to get into...old rant

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 8:07 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

So....typical 24 year old hottie contacts me (I'm 34) asking me what kind of trouble I like to get into. I WANT to respond, "The kind where I put you over my knee and spank you for asking me such an immature kind of question"

But, I digress. And, he gets crickets. Because you know that would just egg him on.

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 8:24 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

What you don't want to be a cougar?

Ah Shelly missed your chance there with a real gem.

Back in my day he would have had his mouth washed out with soap! Cheeky man!!!!!!

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

Yeah....I'm 99.9% sure of exactly what he is after... and its not my mind!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 8:56 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

OMG!!!! I just got an email from some guy asking me if I was a transgender since I was so hot..... I could go through the computer and smack the crap out of him!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 11:37 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

Yep, validation for me not to ever do the OLD scene. You've scared me off for life!

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 2:40 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Who the hell asks you if you are transgender???? And THEN actually thinks they might get a date afterwards???? WTH!!!! I want to date but I'm not desperate you FREAKTARD!!!! OMG!!!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 3:23 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

She11y, I'm 50. And when I was on OLD at least HALF of the messages I got were from guys in their 20's. Sometimes the "mom" in me would come out, and I'd reply and say, "What are you doing? Go play in your own sandbox". I'd usually get one of two answers...."MILF", or "boobs".

And then I'd block them. Idiots.

I "met" very few "real" people on OLD...a lot of foreign scammers. And if they WERE real, they usually couldn't write more than one word messages..."hello", or "'sup?". I'd probably die if I ever met a guy on OLD that could write a coherent, full sentence. Sigh.

[This message edited by SadMad2012 at 9:25 PM, October 31st (Thursday)]

Divorced since 2012

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:03 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

t/j***as a member***

you FREAKTARD!!!!

Just because a person is transgender, doesn't make him a freaktard, just sayin'. end t/j

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 1:21 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Just because a person is transgender, doesn't make him a freaktard, just sayin'. end t/j

I wasn't calling transgenders freaktards, I was calling the rude jerk that was calling me one a freaktard. Its very rude to assume anything about someone that you don't know without getting to know them and it is also going under the 1st assumption that I am misrepresenting myself on a dating site as being a woman when I would not be if that were true. I have a lesbian sister. I don't make rude and/or ignorant comments about people's life choices.

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 1:27 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Thanks for the explanation .

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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Maxiom ( member #26001) posted at 1:54 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

This is the game guys on OLD are taught to play. If you responded to the transgender question in a negative way.. he was going to tell you to that "Relax, Its only a joke" He is not going to apologize. Not that anyone specifically tells them to use transgender.. he's just supposed to use something elicit any response. Negative or otherwise.

There is next to no effort involved in sending a message and near to no consequences for pissing someone off. The plan is to stand out from the crowd.. and to be risque without being completely creepy.

I am not saying this is a good overall plan.. but these guys certainly did stand out.

[This message edited by Maxiom at 7:54 AM, November 1st (Friday)]

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 3:13 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

I am not saying this is a good overall plan.. but these guys certainly did stand out.

I responded first saying "No, are you? and when he did what you said above and apologized and said he would love to meet me and see what "chemistry we would have together" I responded by saying that although it may have been an attempt at being humorous, it took me aback and made me take a few steps back as far as wanting to get to know him further. I wished him luck on his search but told him that I was not interested.

Thanks for the explanation

No problem! I never want anyone to misinterpret something I say, especially if it would reflect on my character. I "try" to treat people the way I want to be treated. That's how I was raised.

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 9:16 AM, November 1st (Friday)]

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

I'm 48 and I've been pursued by those mid 20's guys. Someone said "he prob wants a mommy" I said "and prob wants to be spanked." so you're right-that would have egged him on.

remarried 11-15-15

Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 4:35 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Yeah...I have no desire to be ANYONE's mommy but my daughter's.... that's it! YUCK...

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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LeopoldB ( member #40606) posted at 2:39 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013

She11ybeanz, regarding your recent experiences with OLD...

On behalf of men everywhere, I want to... blame it on the schools. Or the parents. And high-fructose corn syrup, that too. Plus, we don't really have the opportunity for tribal rites-of-passage or coming-of-age walkabouts anymore; nor the countenance of village elders and lore.

But mostly, I want to blame it on too tight or ill-fitting shoes. Podiatrists will tell you that is the root of most aberrant behavior.

[This message edited by LeopoldB at 9:40 AM, November 3rd (Sunday)]

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dignityintact ( member #32558) posted at 11:28 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013

Shelly,

I have been trying OLD since April this year - it sucks!

I get all the messages you get…the young guys, the married guys, I even had a stalker!

Sometimes a "nice" guy will appear, but then poof just as quickly. I read all the time about success stories from OLD, but I just can't ever see it happening??

I'm beginning to think its hopeless, and a waste of time

"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"

Divorcing - at last!

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PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 7:36 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013

here would be my reply:

"I have been known to go a whole five months before I get my "3 month oil change". I'm a rebel that way.

and sometimes I am late to a parent teacher conference. yep, you guessed it, I'm a risk taker.

But the worst ever.... is when I forget my diaper bag. That is a WHOLE lot of trouble I can tell you."

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 4:05 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

But mostly, I want to blame it on too tight or ill-fitting shoes. Podiatrists will tell you that is the root of most aberrant behavior.

LeopoldB.... You cracked me up! I will assume all of these guys are just bad at shoe-shopping! It seems like recently I'm getting hit on by early 20 year olds....who TRY to tell me they are looking for something serious....but COME ON!!! I'm a 34 year old single mom.... I know and THEY know they can find a girl their age who doesn't have children....

WHY hit on me?????

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 12:47 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

This seems to be a fad now. I blame Demi and Ashton

remarried 11-15-15

Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.

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