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Some background.
Our dog was bitten by a rattlesnake last Thursday. He almost died. But, after a few days his blood finally started clotting and they took him off the plasma.
Shrekf...er, who makes almost 11X more than me, and spent $9000+ in one month on his stupid whore, didn't have the money. He tried to give me a hard time because I make a pittance compared to him, and he left me stuck with the house this huge house, it's cost to keep it up, etc. etc. etc.
Now, he finally moved the money to help pay for our dog's vet bills (only 60% of it).
Then he starts talking to me like we are friends again or something. Telling me what's been going on in Afghanistan, conversations with his chums in Afghanistan about "his" dog being tough. Blah blah blah.
So glad incoming rounds were setting off the alarms. He was still talking when I just hung up on him.
He cheated with his whore for 3 years. He abandoned me for stupid whore who looks like Shrek, he disrespected me, he has been a complete @$$whole to me...I emotionally abused him for years...all the crap from the Cheaters 101 handbook. All of this he did while I have raised his children for almost 10 years.
I AM NOT HIS F...ING FRIEND. I don't hate him, but he caused a buttload of hurting on my heart. He wrenched it out of my chest, stomped on it until it was shattered into a million pieces, and then invited his whore to dance with him across my shattered heart.
Blehhhhh. I kept my voice as robot and monotone as possible, didn't respond to anything, except about the $$$, and hung up on him.
And...he won't stop calling, texting, emailing.
Methinks he is starting to see how colossally he screwed up his life. Grrrrrrrrr.
He is NOT coming back to me...he better find a smarter, prettier whore to take him in.
I AM NOT HIS F...ING FRIEND, I AM NOT HIS F...ING FRIEND.
I AM NOT HIS F...ING FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!

Did I get my point across.
I A M N O T H I S F ...ING F R I E N D!!!!

My WS keeps asking me if I will still be his friend, because he 'doesn't have any real friends except me.'

I feel sorry for him because I know that it is true. I have been his best friend all these years. He's going to be lost without me.

I'd better prepare myself for him to behave like your Shrek-lover WS when he moves out tomorrow. I think the first time he has a problem and can't confide in me and ask my advice anymore, it's going to hit him like a ton of bricks.

Marlie,
Tell him to go make friends with one of his whorees.
Grrrrrr...if I didn't need that money, I swear I would have hung up sooner on his stupid you know what.
I really badly wanted to tell him I wasn't his friend anymore and to go call his whore and talk to her about MY dog! Oh, wait, she can't because she is stupid!

Still,

I have been tempted to say just that! But they're all ONS, some of whom he barely knew their first names.

Although when I hear him sometimes talk self-pityingly about the crummy, tiny place he's going to be renting, I feel like telling him to just move in with one of his whores...oh wait, they all still live with their parents!

I feel like telling him to just move in with one of his whores...oh wait, they all still live with their parents!

Good one, Marlie!