BS - 32
So, WH had at least an EA with a co worker.
It's a family run business - as why my WH has no choice to work elsewhere.
This is something I've struggled with - but, gotten to accept.
His AP still works there.
I've outed the A to his family.
What I struggle with is their loyalty to me. Of course, they believe his BS. He's their son, he claims "just friends" "I'm crazy, jealous, what have you..."
Not sure what else has been said since I no longer seek their support in this matter.
But, his family expects me to play nice with them - basically, rugs weep the affair and put on my game face.
My family is not like this. We are close, real, and call it like it is.
His mom always wants to come on my time to see her grandchildren, and I have allowed it since I know hoe important family time is.
I'm tired of this. I cannot stand their fake ness or their non caring ways, towards me.
I want them to visit during "his" time which is the weekends. They can come, I'll leave to do stuff for me - which I am a SAHM and need me time.
Is this selfish? Appropriate?
I feel as though they have chosen her over me. She's a great employee, etc...
Am I being immature?
DDay: July 9, 2012 - EA with COW
DDay 2: March 2015; same COW
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, pack your shit and get out.
Fool me twice, now what?!?!