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User Topic: Great friend
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've said here before that I have the greatest friends in the world. I went to visit a friend that I haven't seen in 13 years since I stood up for his wedding. I told him I was wearing out the backspace button On my phone because I found it therapeutic to write responses to STBX that I really feel and then delete them and send usiness like answers to stupid questions. My friend said, "send them to me. I'll get a laugh and you'll get the satisfaction of sending the message. The following was the first installment of what may become many messages. It was my response to her telling me that I wasn't entitled to any of her year ending profit sharing check:

"Nothing legal has been filed you idiot! I'm entitled to half. Grow up and think about these things instead of who you're going to sleep with next" The message to my friend was more explicit.

Thanks EB.

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 799 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a big fan of "Write it then rip it up." Get it all out here, and then when you are handing her the truth of her dysfunction for real you can omit the "idiot" editorials when you submit it to the courts.

I'm glad you have your friend to turn too, also.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's nothing like being able to hit send. I had a friend do the same for me; she is awesome. We are still best friends to this day and I healed quite nicely.

divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you

Posts: 1283 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
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