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Topic: It's My Birthday - Thank You SI!
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want_to_forgive
♀ 20470
Member # 20470 |  Posted: 1:58 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 |     |
Today is my 39th Birthday. I am so excited to see what this coming year will bring.
Last year at this time I was married to a man who not did not value me or the vows we made. I was so sad and resigned to the fact that I was never going to have the kind of love that I wanted so desperately.
What a difference a year can make! It’s been a roller coaster ride but I am on the other side. Six months out from my divorce and so grateful to be in this place. Dating a wonderful man I trust 100% and he treats me like a princess. I have my own home, a great job, and wonderful family and friends.
My 18 year old DD graduated high school in May. She has moved thousands of miles away for school, but shows me so much appreciation and love that my heart overflows with joy every time I speak with her. 14-17 were pretty tough years with her, it is so amazing to see how she has grown.
Today, on the 1st day of my last year in my 30’s, I am claiming my new beginning. I’m not sure I would have made it through without all of the wonderful support I received from the amazing SI community. I am going to take everything I have learned from this site and my IC and do it right in the second half of my life. Thank you all so much!
M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.
Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 2:07 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Happy Birthday!!!!
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.
Posts: 14007 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 2:07 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Happy Birthday!!!!!
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53957 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
thebighurt
♀ 34722
Member # 34722 | | Posted: 2:27 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Happy Birthday!! 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2735 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 2:54 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Fabulous post, honey. Happy Birthday! 
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28177 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
She11ybeanz
♀ 27457
Member # 27457 | | Posted: 3:13 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Happy Birthday Sweetie!
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
Posts: 2749 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia |
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584 | | Posted: 5:34 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013 | |
Glad to read your positive update!!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4281 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 2:39 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013 | |
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced
Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
traicionada
♀ 10310
Member # 10310 | | Posted: 9:19 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013 | |
Happy Birthday, darling!
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
Posts: 3390 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas |
want_to_forgive
♀ 20470
Member # 20470 | | Posted: 7:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
Thank you for the Birthday wishes! Had the best weekend ever. My best friend rented a limo for my party and filled it with great friends.
We were chauffeured to dinner, then off to the local karaoke hang out. Stayed out till 3 a.m.!!! Saturday was a little rough but it was totally worth it.
Looking forward to seeing other NB'ers birthday fun throughout the year. HUGS!
M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.
Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska |
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