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It's My Birthday - Thank You SI!

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 want_to_forgive (original poster member #20470) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Today is my 39th Birthday. I am so excited to see what this coming year will bring.

Last year at this time I was married to a man who not did not value me or the vows we made. I was so sad and resigned to the fact that I was never going to have the kind of love that I wanted so desperately.

What a difference a year can make! It’s been a roller coaster ride but I am on the other side. Six months out from my divorce and so grateful to be in this place. Dating a wonderful man I trust 100% and he treats me like a princess. I have my own home, a great job, and wonderful family and friends.

My 18 year old DD graduated high school in May. She has moved thousands of miles away for school, but shows me so much appreciation and love that my heart overflows with joy every time I speak with her. 14-17 were pretty tough years with her, it is so amazing to see how she has grown.

Today, on the 1st day of my last year in my 30’s, I am claiming my new beginning. I’m not sure I would have made it through without all of the wonderful support I received from the amazing SI community. I am going to take everything I have learned from this site and my IC and do it right in the second half of my life. Thank you all so much!

M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 8:07 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Happy Birthday!!!!

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 8:07 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Happy Birthday!!!!!

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Happy Birthday!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:54 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Fabulous post, honey. Happy Birthday!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 9:13 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Happy Birthday Sweetie!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:34 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

Glad to read your positive update!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 8:39 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Yesterday was my birthday too! Happy birthday to us!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 3:19 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013

Happy Birthday, darling!

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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 want_to_forgive (original poster member #20470) posted at 1:11 AM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2013

Thank you for the Birthday wishes! Had the best weekend ever. My best friend rented a limo for my party and filled it with great friends.

We were chauffeured to dinner, then off to the local karaoke hang out. Stayed out till 3 a.m.!!! Saturday was a little rough but it was totally worth it.

Looking forward to seeing other NB'ers birthday fun throughout the year. HUGS!

M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

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