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TryingVeryHard posted 11/1/2013 15:42 PM

My WS said he'd gone off me in the time leading up to his 16 month affair.

Do you think it's possible that he can really get over this feeling. We're going into our 4th year in R but I often wonder when he is going to go off me again.

I often think he isn't really attracted to me, that he has to put effort into it.

Anyone else feel the same?

Holly-Isis posted 11/1/2013 16:29 PM


I don't have wisdom, just hugs.

Have you guys gone to MC at all? What has he done to show that you mean more to him that waxing and waning attraction? How can he make you feel safe?

sisoon posted 11/1/2013 18:05 PM

My bet is that he went off himself.

If he changes from WH to 'great partner', you're relationship can prosper. What's he done to change - NC, IC, MC, honesty, transparency?

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