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Tomorrow WH comes back for the final week under the same roof. Moves out next weekend, and D will be final around the same time. I am heartsick at having one last week of this gut wrenching living arrangement. Good mojo needed.

Sending mojo. I know how tough it can be

MAJOR mojo heading your way. Inhouse separation is no walk in the park. Thank heavens you're so close to the finish line.

Hang in there, honey.

Dear Triple, sending you good thoughts and a hug.
Have been in house since the end of JUne, he has been at our timeshare this past week, it's been pure bliss.
I am moving out tomorrow and am so relieved to be away from that filthy man.
Wishing your week goes by fast .

(((Triple)))

Sending mojo, strength, and hope for better days.

Sending you major mojo! I did it for eight months; you are going to feel AWESOME when he's gone, believe me!

You have got this! You know the drill: stay busy, don't engage, vent

Sorry, they only have soybeans round here.

(((hugs))))

Sending you tons and tons of strength! You are so close to ending this in house hell!! You're gonna want to party with something stronger than wine!!

Good luck today, Triple.

This has been such a gut wrenching week! I feel emotionally bankrupt and I know I have so far to go in healing. I wonder where the strength will come from to keep going.

In other news, party at Triple's house saturday

Sending big hugs. I had a party for my 55th after he moved out also.

He kept coming by and bringing things for it, looking sad when I sent him away.

It finally started sinking in for him and it was awful. But having friends around was the best medicine.

(((TD)))

[This message edited by FaithFool at 8:20 PM, November 7th (Thursday)]

Mojo and Hugs!!!!!!!!!

Triple.. good luck and wishing you strength!

I know all too well how difficult an in house separation can be. My own is coming to an end very soon as my WW closes on her new home at the beginning of December. Our divorce should be finalized around the same time. AND our wedding anniversary is this week. AND we are negotiating the final settlement details of our divorce with WW pushing for every $ (the home appraisal is too low so she searches for a single home that sold for more, etc)

Still, WW and I are cordial, friendly, and take care of things together. Even with that the emotions are ver HARD. So it is difficult for me to imagine an in house separation where things are not mostly amicable.

Hang in there! Be safe! Be Happy! Be Healthy! Live with ease!

H&C

I have so far to go in healing. I wonder where the strength will come from to keep going.

You simply cannot fathom how much better things get once he's out and you have your own safe space again. Healing is impossible during in-house separation. Once it ends? You'll surprise yourself.

Thank you all for the supportive words. Tonight as I moved some things around I came across something I hadn't seen in years - his wedding gift to me. It was my undoing. I was taken back as if it were yesterday to the joy and the promise of a long life together.

I know. I thought we would love each other and be together all our lives. I never, ever imagined something like this could happen. I'm still in shock a year after D Day. Someone on another thread wrote that this is the worst experience she has ever been through in her life and that is how it has been for me.

Has your WH actually left?

(((Triple)))

Sending some wine for the party. I hope it helps in your healing.

I'm so sorry for what you've been through but I'm a bit envious as my hell has only begun. So I kind of want to say congrats! You survived!

Last day today? Ding-dong-the king/witch is dead??