I so get it!
I see ow at LEAST 3 times a week. Daughters on the same team. I ignore her, I *think* it pisses her off
I talk to my friends/other moms on the team (I have them, she doesn't), grab WH's butt, make sure he is RIGHT NEXT TO ME at all times and laugh a lot. A lot.
Just keep being you, you rock! She doesn't.
I am also a little more snarkey after seeing her. WH deals with it. After all, it's his fault.
I get it, I really do. Just remember you are the better person. That's what I keep telling myself.