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 heforgotme (original poster member #38391) posted at 5:38 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Yesterday was our son's birthday.

Last year he spent our son's bday with the AP.

It makes me want to scream.

I understand that he built me into some big meanie in his head (all based on bullcrap, of course). Whatever. I'm an adult.

But what kind of SOB neglects their children for a piece of ass.

A real POS SOB for sure.

I found a note in his IPad dated on his son's birthday. Noting what she wanted to eat. To make sure he didn't forget. Wouldn't want to disappoint her.

No note to get DS a present or even a card. No note to call him. And in fact he did none of those things.

I texted him photos since he "couldn't" be there. Big meanie that I was.

So, while I was picking up the cake, running kids to the movies.....while we were all singing Happy Birthday and blowing out candles.....well, I guess we know what he was doing.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:05 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

(((heforgotme))) I'm sorry you're having a bad day. Hang in there!! It DOES get better!

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:04 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

(((heforgotme & DS)))

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 heforgotme (original poster member #38391) posted at 9:25 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013

Thanks guys. I hate when these things pop up and bash me upside the head.

Blah.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

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RightTrack ( member #36976) posted at 3:17 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013

My WH did the hat trick: Spent my 40th birthday, DS AND DD's birthdays with the MOW...and they only met up 5x in a two year period!!! Amazing!! We are coming up on two years of R but he forgot his mother's birthday recently and screwed up mine ( gave me a card I had in a drawer to give to one of my girlfriends).

Selfishness takes some time to overcome I guess.

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