"I'm Sorry Baby But You Can't Stand In My Light Anymore"
(ETA: by Bob Mould)
I feel it's the theme song for any BS.
ETA 2: main lyrics. It's just perfect for those of us who lean co-dependent and married broken losers!
I'm sorry baby but you can't stand in my light anymore
You're moving back to the shadows
I can't fight this anymore
I tried to heal you and I tried to fix you
I tried to show you compassion
I tried to listen, I tried to love you even though you were broken
I let you get up close to me, I let you feel the warm and the calm
And you resisted, it took me time to notice
But now I see the shadows as they fall
I always find the broken ones, what does this say about me?
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Maybe I'm the broken one, maybe when the lights go down
Maybe I'm the one who feels lonely
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny