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I heard this song yesterday "Giving Tree" from Plain White T's.

Wow, that spoke volumes to me. Any further song recommendations are welcome. I need a new playlist to throw my own pity parties

"I'm Sorry Baby But You Can't Stand In My Light Anymore"

(ETA: by Bob Mould)

I feel it's the theme song for any BS.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4N5fWQo4oC4

ETA 2: main lyrics. It's just perfect for those of us who lean co-dependent and married broken losers!

I'm sorry baby but you can't stand in my light anymore
You're moving back to the shadows
I can't fight this anymore

I tried to heal you and I tried to fix you
I tried to show you compassion
I tried to listen, I tried to love you even though you were broken

I let you get up close to me, I let you feel the warm and the calm
And you resisted, it took me time to notice
But now I see the shadows as they fall

I always find the broken ones, what does this say about me?
Maybe I'm the broken one, maybe when the lights go down
Maybe I'm the one who feels lonely

[This message edited by phmh at 6:53 PM, November 2nd (Saturday)]