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momoffive posted 11/3/2013 07:44 AM

SAWH and I have been sleeping separately for at 10 months now. This last month he told his IC that he finds it difficult to meet my needs/win me back because "we aren't sharing the same bed".

I had reminded him that he did back in the day when we were dating and living in separate homes.
I reminded him that he met OW needs/won her over while they lived separately.
Anyway, I called bullshit on that.

So today he brings me a cup of coffee, which he rarely does anymore and then tries to feel me up and initiate sex. The man has not done what I told him I need from him and then wants sex. I say no. He goes downstairs and I hear cupboard doors closing very loadly.

Here's the irony of it all...

Today is MY birthday. And he acts like that. Makes me want to say that if he really wants to give me a "gift", then start working on meeting my needs and the specific things I told him I need from him.

zebra25 posted 11/3/2013 08:25 AM

Happy Birthday!!

Sorry he let you down. Do something nice for yourself.

(HUGS)

Kelany posted 11/3/2013 08:28 AM

Is he in any type of recovery program? Seems like he is still trying to act out. With you.

He does not get it at all.

Chrysalis123 posted 11/3/2013 08:35 AM

Happy Birthday!

momoffive posted 11/3/2013 08:39 AM

And he didn't even say "happy birthday"...