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momoffive (original poster member #27352) posted at 1:44 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
SAWH and I have been sleeping separately for at 10 months now. This last month he told his IC that he finds it difficult to meet my needs/win me back because "we aren't sharing the same bed".
I had reminded him that he did back in the day when we were dating and living in separate homes.
I reminded him that he met OW needs/won her over while they lived separately.
Anyway, I called bullshit on that.
So today he brings me a cup of coffee, which he rarely does anymore and then tries to feel me up and initiate sex. The man has not done what I told him I need from him and then wants sex. I say no. He goes downstairs and I hear cupboard doors closing very loadly.
Here's the irony of it all...
Today is MY birthday. And he acts like that. Makes me want to say that if he really wants to give me a "gift", then start working on meeting my needs and the specific things I told him I need from him.
BW 46, SAWH 47(sorry1),M27 yrs
Dday1-7/3/09 EA OW4, Dday2-9/1/09 PA OW4
Dday3 3/14/10 Farmville sexting, OW3
Dday4 3/13/11 Secret texting, would be OW5-she said no
Dday5 8/2/11 PA in 2001 OW1, kissing in 2007 OW2
Dday6 7/11/16 EA OW6
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:25 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Happy Birthday!!
Sorry he let you down. Do something nice for yourself.
(HUGS)
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:28 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Is he in any type of recovery program? Seems like he is still trying to act out. With you.
He does not get it at all.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:35 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
momoffive (original poster member #27352) posted at 2:39 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2013
And he didn't even say "happy birthday"...
BW 46, SAWH 47(sorry1),M27 yrs
Dday1-7/3/09 EA OW4, Dday2-9/1/09 PA OW4
Dday3 3/14/10 Farmville sexting, OW3
Dday4 3/13/11 Secret texting, would be OW5-she said no
Dday5 8/2/11 PA in 2001 OW1, kissing in 2007 OW2
Dday6 7/11/16 EA OW6
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