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Topic: Can't sleep, feeling sad, need a hug
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Ms_Strong
♀ 30883
Member # 30883 |  Posted: 6:36 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 |     |
Couldn't sleep all night, I feel alone and sad. My BF and I may be breaking up, just feel so sad about it. My first relationship since D.
It's bringing back memories of the end of the M, and that feeling of its going to happen, those words that lead to breaking up.
I think I may have talked my BF into realizing the love of his life isn't me but another girl he dated 2years ago.
Feel so sad.
Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs
Posts: 276 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
timeforchange
♀ 27454
Member # 27454 | | Posted: 7:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
Hello MsStrong.
Sorry to read you are suffering and sad.
Maybe you need to breach the subject with him? Maybe having a talk about why you are feeling this way may give you some clear answers.
Worst case scenario is he does what to end things... But at least then you will known and can start working on your healing.
I see our originals D Days were the same week!!! You have come so far... You can Survive this too.
Take care
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe |
timeforchange
♀ 27454
Member # 27454 | | Posted: 7:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
Sorry forgot the hugs
(((((((((((MsStrong)))))))))))
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 7:27 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
((((Ms_Strong))))
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28351 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 10:53 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Ms_Strong)))
Posts: 38300 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
ninebark
♀ 24534
Member # 24534 | | Posted: 11:09 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
I have no amazing words of advice here. Dating is hard.
So I send you great big hugs from Canada and hope you feel better soon.
BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.
Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada |
fraeuken
♀ 30742
Member # 30742 | | Posted: 11:18 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
Sending you big hugs from California. I went through a breakup recently too and while it was the right thing to do it was more difficult than any other breakup aside from my marriage.
Hang in there, maybe things will turn out for you and BF after all!
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1273 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 12:59 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Ms_Strong)))
Life can be so hard some times.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced
Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
thebighurt
♀ 34722
Member # 34722 | | Posted: 1:37 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Ms_Strong)))
Sad as it makes you feel, I think it's better for you than being with someone who isn't into the relationship the same way. Better to find out the truth now. You deserve so much more!!
tbh
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2748 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 7:59 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Ms. Strong)))
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 3021 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
gardenparty
12050
Member # 12050 | | Posted: 9:40 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
((hugs))
divorced!
Posts: 2806 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 10:56 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((((Ms_Strong)))))))
Better to find out now then later.
Still hurts,
More hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6040 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 10:57 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Ms_Strong)))
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20953 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
NaiveAgain
♀ 20849
Member # 20849 | | Posted: 2:08 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((Ms Strong)))
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15803 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 4:22 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
How are you doing today, Ms_Strong?
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28351 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
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