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User Topic: 1,000 Post Party for Abbondad!!!!!
MovingUpward
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Happy  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!! I know that you are in a continual struggle with your stbxww. Thank you for being able to reach out to so many others and help them out during all of this.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, Abbondad!


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


Posts: 40231 | Registered: Aug 2011
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats :)


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!! Congrats on 1,000+ posts


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3987 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yaaay!! You've come a long way, AD!

(Someone might need to ping him... I'm not sure he's ever been in here... )


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way To Go!!!


Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 26002 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!




Posts: 3615 | Registered: Oct 2012
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 8014 | Registered: Jan 2011
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 4:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Thanks for alerting me that this was going on down here!

You people are incredible.

I had no idea that there were 1,000 posts. Frankly I'm a little embarrassed! I feel like I came in and took over the SI forums.

But you all flocked to my side and got me where I am today. I have said it before, but now is a good opportunity to say it again: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I honestly do not believe I would have been able to find my strength to file if it hadn't been for SI. I would still likely have been in limbo enduring agonizing emotional abuse.

I have supportive family, friends, and therapist IRL. They all urged me toward the path I am now on. But the truth is, like a bereavement or any support group, nobody understands the trauma of infidelity unless they have gone through it. Cliched, but true.

To think: faceless, pseudonymed people in cyberspace played a crucial role in facing and conquering the most devastating decision and trauma of my life. It amazes me.

And I resolve to always give back to the many people here. It's the least I can do.

Again, just thank you--thank you so much. You are the good ones in life.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 2066 | Registered: Dec 2012
openedupmyeyes
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Happy  Posted: 5:58 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah! AD.


Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo! Abbondad!!! Glad you are in a better spot b/c of all your different support groups!


Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

Posts: 1729 | Registered: Aug 2009
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Abb! **standing up clapping**


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!!


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 4571 | Registered: Jan 2010
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on dipping your toe into F&G. Did you bring wine?

You're amazing. Keep going.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 20688 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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