Topic: 1,000 Post Party for Abbondad!!!!!
Member # 14866
| Posted: 7:48 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations!!!! I know that you are in a continual struggle with your stbxww. Thank you for being able to reach out to so many others and help them out during all of this.
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 54343 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:33 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown
Posts: 35374 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 24534
| Posted: 9:02 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.
Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
Member # 31528
| Posted: 9:08 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Posts: 44534 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 2
| Posted: 9:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 207658 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 33699
| Posted: 11:50 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
YAY!!! Congrats on 1,000+ posts
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3939 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 31349
| Posted: 1:07 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Yaaay!! You've come a long way, AD!
(Someone might need to ping him... I'm not sure he's ever been in here... )
I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon
Posts: 27086 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 26531
| Posted: 4:58 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Way To Go!!!
Me: BSO - 47
Him: FWSO - 70
DS - 14
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25543 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 37091
| Posted: 5:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Posts: 3611 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 30817
| Posted: 5:22 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 7604 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 37898
| Posted: 4:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Wow! Thanks for alerting me that this was going on down here!
You people are incredible.
I had no idea that there were 1,000 posts. Frankly I'm a little embarrassed! I feel like I came in and took over the SI forums.
But you all flocked to my side and got me where I am today. I have said it before, but now is a good opportunity to say it again: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I honestly do not believe I would have been able to find my strength to file if it hadn't been for SI. I would still likely have been in limbo enduring agonizing emotional abuse.
I have supportive family, friends, and therapist IRL. They all urged me toward the path I am now on. But the truth is, like a bereavement or any support group, nobody understands the trauma of infidelity unless they have gone through it. Cliched, but true.
To think: faceless, pseudonymed people in cyberspace played a crucial role in facing and conquering the most devastating decision and trauma of my life. It amazes me.
And I resolve to always give back to the many people here. It's the least I can do.
Again, just thank you--thank you so much. You are the good ones in life.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Posts: 1976 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 27871
| Posted: 5:58 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Posts: 770 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Member # 25144
| Posted: 9:01 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Woo Hoo! Abbondad!!! Glad you are in a better spot b/c of all your different support groups!
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Posts: 1729 | Registered: Aug 2009
Member # 31722
| Posted: 3:07 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats Abb! **standing up clapping**
Posts: 1489 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Member # 8142
| Posted: 4:41 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25565 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 27148
| Posted: 11:08 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 3597 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 20150
| Posted: 11:17 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Congratulations on dipping your toe into F&G. Did you bring wine?
You're amazing. Keep going.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 19388 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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