Topic: 1,000 Post Party for Abbondad!!!!!
Member # 14866
| Posted: 7:48 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations!!!! I know that you are in a continual struggle with your stbxww. Thank you for being able to reach out to so many others and help them out during all of this.
Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:33 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 39161 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 24534
| Posted: 9:02 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.
Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
Member # 31528
| Posted: 9:08 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Posts: 48474 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 2
| Posted: 9:19 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 210060 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 33699
| Posted: 11:50 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
YAY!!! Congrats on 1,000+ posts
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3977 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 31349
| Posted: 1:07 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Yaaay!! You've come a long way, AD!
(Someone might need to ping him... I'm not sure he's ever been in here... )
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 26531
| Posted: 4:58 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Way To Go!!!
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25789 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 37091
| Posted: 5:11 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
Posts: 3615 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 30817
| Posted: 5:22 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013|
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 7987 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 37898
| Posted: 4:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Wow! Thanks for alerting me that this was going on down here!
You people are incredible.
I had no idea that there were 1,000 posts. Frankly I'm a little embarrassed! I feel like I came in and took over the SI forums.
But you all flocked to my side and got me where I am today. I have said it before, but now is a good opportunity to say it again: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I honestly do not believe I would have been able to find my strength to file if it hadn't been for SI. I would still likely have been in limbo enduring agonizing emotional abuse.
I have supportive family, friends, and therapist IRL. They all urged me toward the path I am now on. But the truth is, like a bereavement or any support group, nobody understands the trauma of infidelity unless they have gone through it. Cliched, but true.
To think: faceless, pseudonymed people in cyberspace played a crucial role in facing and conquering the most devastating decision and trauma of my life. It amazes me.
And I resolve to always give back to the many people here. It's the least I can do.
Again, just thank you--thank you so much. You are the good ones in life.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Posts: 2066 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 27871
| Posted: 5:58 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Posts: 770 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Member # 25144
| Posted: 9:01 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Woo Hoo! Abbondad!!! Glad you are in a better spot b/c of all your different support groups!
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Posts: 1729 | Registered: Aug 2009
Member # 31722
| Posted: 3:07 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats Abb! **standing up clapping**
Posts: 1566 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Member # 8142
| Posted: 4:41 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25757 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 27148
| Posted: 11:08 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 4278 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 20150
| Posted: 11:17 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Congratulations on dipping your toe into F&G. Did you bring wine?
You're amazing. Keep going.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 20100 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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