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User Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Happy  Posted: 7:30 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'M DIVORCED!
I'M DIVORCED!
I'M DIVORCED!

I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!
I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!
I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!

FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!
FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!
FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!

I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!




Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10014 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2773 | Registered: Jan 2010
Grace and Flowers
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Member # 34431
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long time coming! Thank god! Glad that is done, NG!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1195 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BEST DIVORCE EVER!

Seriously, I have never been happier for someone to have their divorce finalized.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26166 | Registered: Aug 2011
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

psst - Update that signature, honey. You SO have earned it.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26166 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLCEUpIg8rE


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTB46FJOF5w

(Updated it, NIK. Thanks!)

[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 7:47 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10014 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 414 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10014 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52992 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
waiting2see
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Member # 13767
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


Posts: 1932 | Registered: Feb 2007
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!

Your XWH is the cheater I feel the most animosity against.

I'm so glad you're free, and I can't wait to read all the wonderful things that will come into your life in the ensuing months/years.

Great job!!! You did it!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3474 | Registered: Dec 2011
Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO very happy for you! Congratulations!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1259 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!



"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
courageous
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Member # 34477
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉


This is a major reason to celebrate. I am sooooo happy for you!

I hope things continue to get better for you.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 659 | Registered: Jan 2012
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!! So happy for you!


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's the tune to that and can it be sung as a round????

Congrats NG!!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2879 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drinks on me!!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6643 | Registered: Jan 2011
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, I showed up in time for drinks!!!

Seriously, NG, congratulations. I hope this symbolic freedom (cause you cast him aside long ago) allows you to SOAR with the eagles.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5906 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17699 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
hexed
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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