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User Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Happy  Posted: 7:30 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'M DIVORCED!
I'M DIVORCED!
I'M DIVORCED!

I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!
I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!
I DIVORCED THAT SON OF A BITCH!

FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!
FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!
FUCK YOU, ASSHOLE!

I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!




Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 3859 | Registered: Jan 2010
Grace and Flowers
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Member # 34431
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long time coming! Thank god! Glad that is done, NG!


"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept

"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222


Posts: 1357 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BEST DIVORCE EVER!

Seriously, I have never been happier for someone to have their divorce finalized.


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36800 | Registered: Aug 2011
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

psst - Update that signature, honey. You SO have earned it.


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36800 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLCEUpIg8rE


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTB46FJOF5w

(Updated it, NIK. Thanks!)

[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 7:47 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 415 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M


Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 54367 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


me: BS
him: XWS

Someone I love once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift. --Mary Oliver


Posts: 2046 | Registered: Feb 2007
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!

Your XWH is the cheater I feel the most animosity against.

I'm so glad you're free, and I can't wait to read all the wonderful things that will come into your life in the ensuing months/years.

Great job!!! You did it!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 4025 | Registered: Dec 2011
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO very happy for you! Congratulations!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 24,19 -DS20 Deceased
D 2013

~Hakuna matata!~


Posts: 2608 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!



"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
courageous
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉


This is a major reason to celebrate. I am sooooo happy for you!

I hope things continue to get better for you.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
Exwh married his AP

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 812 | Registered: Jan 2012
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!! So happy for you!


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.

Posts: 894 | Registered: May 2013
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's the tune to that and can it be sung as a round????

Congrats NG!!


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3601 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drinks on me!!!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 7743 | Registered: Jan 2011
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, I showed up in time for drinks!!!

Seriously, NG, congratulations. I hope this symbolic freedom (cause you cast him aside long ago) allows you to SOAR with the eagles.


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6953 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 19776 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
hexed
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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