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♀ 35787
Member # 35787
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesterday, both I and WH had to work. My shift was shorter, and an afternoon shift. His was a night shift, normally 10 hours long.
Wh was laidoff for a week, and last night was his first night back at work.
This morning, WH walked in at 6 a.m. This is not normal. He should have been home by 4. When I looked at the phone records, all phone contacts to ANYONE stopped at 5. I don't know where or what he was doing that last hour. Hw woke me when he came in and said he had worked for 11 hours pay "the hard way", meaning as team leader, he wasn't able to get out in a timely way. But something feels off. I am not feeling good, and hate that my gut is screaming at me, and there doesn't seem to be any way to figure out that last hour, let alone exactly WHAT was going on... I hate that in this position a person is reliable on information from the one person who has hurt you...UGH...

Me: 37 and awesome
Him: 42 and not so awesome
OW1: 47 and desperate OW2: 34, freshly divorced, was once my friend OW3: is OW1 who took in WH during seperation.

Posts: 205 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Michigan
♀ 38424
Member # 38424
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I think you should trust your gut and dig deeper.

Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
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