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User Topic: DDay Anniversary blues
♀ 38937
Member # 38937
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This month will make us one year since Dday and I am triggering hard. Looking back at the past year I really am surprised that I made it to this point without losing my job or worse. The first months post finding out were the worst of my life. Yet I survived and we are still working on the relationship. Still not sure if we have a future but I'm taking it one day at a time. I am soooo glad I found this out before we were married. yuck!

Anyway. I told my WF that I have been feeling down. He of course apologized and expressed his deep sorrow for causing this hurt but it felt forced. Like he was really just exasperated. I on the other hand am baffled and saddened that he isn't more sensitive about the approaching date. I feel like he should be "triggering" as well. Yet he moves on. Seems like Proof that no matter how much he is hurting the hurt just isn't the same for him.

No purpose to this post. Just venting

Posts: 8 | Registered: Apr 2013
♀ 39855
Member # 39855
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you OP. It's been almost exactly a year for me too.

Me: 23

Him: 29

Together 6 years.

DS: 2yrs

Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"

Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday

Posts: 28 | Registered: Jul 2013
♀ 40298
Member # 40298
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on getting through your first year. You've come a long way!!!

I'm sorry you didn't get the reaction you were looking for. I don't understand how some people can drop a bomb on you and just expect you to move on.

I'm glad you posted on here. It helps sometimes, if only to validate your feelings. I don't blame you for venting!! Do something special for you today!


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
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