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Sleepy312 posted 11/5/2013 14:47 PM

Seriously who the f@ck ever thought holding yoga class at the end of the work day IN THE OFFICE was a good idea? I can only imagine is was a Pervy guy, I see my fwh is telling is former colleague about it and talking about two of the 20 something's in his office being hot. One engaged and complaining and h tells former coworker the relationship is a time bomb.

To top it off I see h was looking at one girl's Instagram where she posts photos of herself doing yoga in bikinis and othe revealing clothing.

H doesn't know I'm aware of all this can't wait to see if his executive admin is this girl. I'm pissed and to top it off he erased all emails from the hi wrecker he was supposed to have lunch with but I saw one today to her that he emailed her to about trying again for lunch.

Sleepy312 posted 11/6/2013 09:57 AM

Now, he is sharing the links of her yoga crotch with another guy. Is this supposed to be "cool guy" talking to his single friend? wtf

PinkJeepLady posted 11/6/2013 10:04 AM

Totally degrading to him, you and the entire Yoga community!
So sorry you are having to deal with this crap, it's ridiculous.
Take care!

idkam posted 11/6/2013 11:19 AM

Sounds really creepy to me....so it seems to me he's wanting things to look innocent on the outside but he is sneaking and carrying on a crush in the office...

Ostrich80 posted 11/6/2013 11:30 AM

Ok, I just read your profile history. EA with co worker. I take it he's not been interested in yoga til now? Sounds like he has some boundary issue, like he needs some. Do you suspect he's done more than these flirty office shenanigans? Can you take a look at his phone usage, on the bill, not in his phone.

atsenaotie posted 11/6/2013 11:42 AM

Now, he is sharing the links of her yoga crotch with another guy.

That is what jr. high boys do, not adult men. It throws up red flags for me about bopundaries, objectifying, and appropriate workplace behaviors. This is all very much wayward behavior in my opinion.

I have been with two employers where yoga was offered as a part of wellnesss and I participated. We really have not had problems with giggly participants like your H. OTOH, participants wore apropriate clothing for yoga at work.

Sleepy312 posted 11/6/2013 12:22 PM

He isn't participating in yoga. He can see it from his office and the 24yo admin clearly wears her lulu lemon bras and pants.

GabyBaby posted 11/6/2013 12:48 PM

I have been with two employers where yoga was offered as a part of wellnesss and I participated.
This.
I also work for an employer that has a wellness program and were yoga offered, I would happily participate.

The problem isn't the yoga, its the lack of boundaries of your WS and his work "buddy".

simplydevastated posted 11/6/2013 13:06 PM

Now, he is sharing the links of her yoga crotch with another guy. Is this supposed to be "cool guy" talking to his single friend? wtf

My husband was driving my car one day and took a pic of a woman riding a motorcycle on the highway. He proceeded to pass it around work. I can't remember if he ever told me what he said about the woman, but he did tell me that he did it to fit in with the other guys in the office. This shit makes me want to

Sleepy312 posted 11/8/2013 16:48 PM

I lightly touched on "issues" with H today, and the mention of being disrespectful to me by talking about the "hot chicks" in the office, and the first response was "what are you snooping? what did you see the chat I had with Ryan?"

I said who is Ryan. He said a guy that he used to work with. Yea, the one he also told that you almost ruined your life with a hot chick at a work party last suymmer.

We barely scratched the surface, but it was all about me being negative and a smart ass. I asked him for specifics since he said I had been negative all day. The only thing he could come up with was a smartass comment I made about the cheese.

He's standing in the kitchen, and he looks at me and asks where's the cheese(for his sandwich), and I sarcastically said "I dunno, the refrigerator?" I owned the sarcasm, but I told him it was a stupid question.

Other than that he had no specifics on my negativity, and guys talking about the hot chicks doing yoga is completely normal and acceptable. I'm apparently the problem. God I hate my life.

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