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User Topic: Kick him out but want him back
Sleepy312
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a conversation with a friend who was recently screwed over by her H. We seem to be on the same page that we want to kick our cheating, lying husbands out so they can see what exactly they are losing and punish them but ultimately(being honest with ourselves) we want to have them back in the end.

Is this normal? Is this part of the process of dragging out a broken relationship? Both men seem to think that they did it, it's over, they are moving on, so we women should move on. They tip toe around the subject.

Why do we mentally torture ourselves like this? Are we just prolonging an inevitable split? I'm so confused and fucking yoga at work isn't helping!


Me 41
Dh 40
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 17 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to


Posts: 507 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Nj
dindy
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Member # 38424
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words of wisdom I'm afraid but just wanted you to know that you are not alone.

I so wanted my ex to come crawling back and tell me he was willing to do the work to make himself the partner and father that my children and I deserve.

Sadly, this never happened and he has made it very clear that he would rather wait for OW.

I hope you can focus on your own healing.

Sending you strength.


Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
Sleepy312
♀ 38360
Member # 38360
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't see a positive ending with any scenario right now.


Me 41
Dh 40
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 17 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to


Posts: 507 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Nj
Topic Posts: 3

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