Me BS, 41
For the first time while we were together he started to think about his A and he became so upset. That he had ruined what we have and made something so pure into something so sordid. He says since dday and the HB after he's never once thought about her when we are together and I do believe him. The fog lifted pretty quickly for him and he's been the perfect remorseful H ever since.
We did manage to get back on track today though and best of all he talked about how he was feeling. Communication was poor well before his A.
Is this a normal stage in all this?
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."