For me, yes. His adultery is now a part of our history. I honestly don't think of it much. I don't trigger when I drive by the hotel anymore. I don't trigger at Starbucks anymore. It's not the first or second thought that I have when I wake up, when I see him, when I think about us. The scar tissue is there, but when I poke it, it doesn't ooze anymore.
The phase I seem to be in now is the Fix Your Shit phase. Digging to get to the bottom of compulsions, fears of intimacy, being watchful of that slippery slope. (BTW, just saying the words "slippery slope" used to trigger me hard." Seeing what type of marriage that we can rebuild. Trying to dig deeper into each other and dig out all of the muck in the wounds.
You can see from my profile that it's been a rocky road. Might continue to be rocky going forward too. But since I don't want what we had, there at the end, pulling those rocks out of the road going forward is the only option. Hope this helps!