So, DD16 could not be stopped today spilling the beans on her father and Sparkly Panties. I just let her vent for almost 2 hours straight. I literally could not get a word in...
What triggered the vent was the following story DD16 just had to share with me:
The weekend before Halloween, XH and Sparkly Panties (38 years old) went to a party. When they came back, Sparkly Panties was drunk. DD16 was on Facetime with her boyfriend, who is a total sweetheart. Sparkly Panties barged into DD16s room (which already pissed off DD16 because of the intrusion of privacy). Then Sparkly Panties made herself comfortable on DD16s bed as if they were good buddies and started talking to DDs boyfriend. DD16 asked her to leave but Sparkly Panties decided to have some fun and started flirting (according to DD16) with the boyfriend, making all kinds of awkward, slippery remarks and did not leave until about 15 minutes later with DD16 almost in tears.
DD16 as she concluded the story: "Mom, Sparkly Panties had no respect for your marriage, what would make me think she would respect my relationship? She is just a cheap whore."
I can't even begin to understand why anybody would act like that. This is also the second time in a few weeks that I have gotten word about her being drunk and obnoxious around family members. She sure sounds like a class act - NOT.