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Trying to trick WS?
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stongmomof3 posted 11/7/2013 10:42 AM
Did anyone attempt to trap or catch them in a lie? Or attempt
To catch them trying to hook up with AP or some new AP? After dday I sent my WS a text from an unknown number pretending to be one of the OW. I just wanted to let see if he would really tell me right away that she broke no contact. He did within seconds. I heard his ding for the text in the other room and then I heard him say WTF. It was a small relief. I told him immediately it was me and I appreciated him being honest (for once).
KatieG posted 11/7/2013 10:50 AM
How did he react to being tricked - ok?
Merlin posted 11/7/2013 10:50 AM
Playing 'gotcha' is rarely necessary with waywards.
They can rarely keep their stories straight.
stongmomof3 posted 11/7/2013 10:58 AM
He said he understood and was relieved that it was me, because he would be shocked and furious at her. Our OW Seemed more remorseful than he did at the time.
Ostrich80 posted 11/7/2013 11:18 AM
I've thought about it more than a few times. I prob would have if I knew more info..but he's pretty good at erasing tracks. I did tell a lie on DD, to get him to confess what I suspected. It worked. I told him I had pix of he and ow, he actually believed me.