Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: Starrystarrynight

General :
Trying to trick WS?

This Topic is Archived
default

 stongmomof3 (original poster member #41158) posted at 4:42 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

Did anyone attempt to trap or catch them in a lie? Or attempt

To catch them trying to hook up with AP or some new AP? After dday I sent my WS a text from an unknown number pretending to be one of the OW. I just wanted to let see if he would really tell me right away that she broke no contact. He did within seconds. I heard his ding for the text in the other room and then I heard him say WTF. It was a small relief. I told him immediately it was me and I appreciated him being honest (for once).

Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

posts: 61   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2013
id 6553579
default

KatieG ( member #41222) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

How did he react to being tricked - ok?

DD#1 - Oct 13

"Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive" - CS Lewis

posts: 822   ·   registered: Nov. 4th, 2013
id 6553592
default

Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

Playing 'gotcha' is rarely necessary with waywards.

They can rarely keep their stories straight.

"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11

posts: 1164   ·   registered: Nov. 26th, 2010   ·   location: East Coast
id 6553594
default

 stongmomof3 (original poster member #41158) posted at 4:58 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

He said he understood and was relieved that it was me, because he would be shocked and furious at her. Our OW Seemed more remorseful than he did at the time.

Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

posts: 61   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2013
id 6553604
default

Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 5:18 PM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

I've thought about it more than a few times. I prob would have if I knew more info..but he's pretty good at erasing tracks. I did tell a lie on DD, to get him to confess what I suspected. It worked. I told him I had pix of he and ow, he actually believed me.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

posts: 5738   ·   registered: Feb. 15th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6553628
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy