My Ex asked for a copy of our wedding photo as he was leaving our home - TO MOVE IN WITH OW!!!!!
I had separated all our photos and gave him the ones that I knew he'd want, snowmobiling, sailing etc. I didn't give him a single one of me and IF he noticed, he didn't say anything.
My theory is that they are scared what the future holds for them ( even though it was their choice) and seek the comfort of happier days. Your wife wants her wedding dress etc because it was a great day in her life. All little girls dream of their wedding.
I think they all have that moment of second guessing if they are doing the right thing, but once they move out, that passes.
Then again, maybe she is going to have a bonfire in the driveway,like I did.
[This message edited by Pippy at 3:00 PM, November 7th (Thursday)]