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User Topic: Rant: it's the little things that piss me off
stongmomof3
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm getting better about brain blocking myself when the big things sneak in. Some days it's just the little things. We used to really enjoy Mad Men together. We would watch and he would always say what a POS the cheaters were (during his affairs). I haven't watched any since dday but the commercials piss me off to no end . Anyone else have little things that trigger?


Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Oct 2013
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Funny, my ws always shakes his head and calls the cheating woman in any movie or show, a slut. Not to much said about the man though. Just.irritates the hell out.of me.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5242 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It actually pisses me off when STBXH gets that 'sheepish' look whenever his cheating is brought up. If he felt so damn bad about it, he wouldn't have done it!


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1984 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
whiteflower99
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Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lately it has been replaying conversations in my head. Pretty much every time I hear a text message come through on someone's phone with the same alert sound he had I want to hit a wall. With his head.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1777 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
velvethammer
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We (me, him, friends, family) used to hum the banjo song in Deliverance and poke fun at cousin fuckers...then he fucked his cousin and I feel like the joke.

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2013
stongmomof3
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Member # 41158
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omg velvethammer!
Wow


Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Oct 2013
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somewhat of a t/j but Velvet- my sister used to tease me and call me inbred. I had a pretty thick southern accent when I lived in N.C. and she would call me hick and inbred.

Fast forward...she's left her BH for our cousin.

As for what triggers me, not much. I do avoid things that I know are going to be focused on infidelity but that in itself isn't a trigger always.

Now it's mainly surprising things. Like the other day seeing a bouquet that had star lillies...xOw1's favorite flowers. Or MrH making a comment that he WS giving me something he enjoyed, can't even remember what now because of the trigger from that. At some point either before or during the 1A we went out to Olive Garden with xOw1. MrH commented that he didn't get an olive from the salad and he liked them. I was giving him mine and xOw1 tried to insist she'd give him hers. Red flag, right? Yet I trusted him even if I became cautious around her.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11284 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
velvethammer
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holly - eww. I hope she doesn't still call you hick and inbred. Sad thing is, before I knew what was going on and was about to transpire, she contacted me on fb trying to befriend me because you know, that's the polite thing to do when you're going to fuck someone else's man. I ignored her, thought she was trash and didn't want anything to do with her but I of course saw her pic. I work in research and specifically with DNA. My boss has a fun special talent of picking out inbreds based on physical features. He taught me some stuff and when I saw her pic I immediately thought INBRED! EWW EWW EWW!!!

WBF was hesitant to take her bait because they're cousins and he brought that up to her. One of the ways she tried justifying cousin fucking was to tell him she read an article once that described a brother and sister separated at birth who grew up not knowing each other and got together and married before they found out they were brother and sister. Um...I'm sorry...did you just tell me she used bro/sis sex to seduce you? Did you just say someone told you they are pro bro/sis sex and you DIDN'T RUN? And that's what the obese, ignorant, ogre ugly whore has in her seduction toolbox? WOW! I gotta say, I thought I had heard it all at that point but that floored me. I was actually laughing at how utterly disgusting and despicable a human being she is and how she obviously has ZERO self esteem to use incest as a seduction tool. It's great that she has 4 kids. Of course he's no better because he fell for it...oh, you read an article? Well then it must be ok because you clearly have your head screwed on straight.


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