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even in death, don't count on it staying a secret
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inconnu posted 11/7/2013 12:00 PM
I recently changed jobs. The clientele here is well, let's say, considerably better off financially than most people. Part of my job is to audit scanned documents and today I was going over some legal documents involving the death of a client.
It was all the usual stuff you'd expect when someone who has a large estate dies. And then I got to the affidavit where they tracked down the considerably younger female friend of the decedent, who then had to swear in a binding legal document as to details of the relationship, as well as acknowledge she had benefitted financially from the account/client. Oh yeah, and then they made her add to the document that she knew she would not further benefit or inherit anything from the estate.
This document was dated just 4 days after the client died. Oh, and there was also a very complete background check done on this female "friend."
There are no secrets. One way or another, it comes out. Count on it.
hitbyatruck posted 11/7/2013 12:22 PM
I have never agreed with that line of thinking. I think it is impossible for all secrets to eventually out themselves. I think a lot of secrets come out in strange ways (I accidentally found one of my H's AP online dairy 7 years after the affair ended) I just don't think they all secrets come out.
No ones knows what they don't know.
Simple posted 11/7/2013 12:25 PM
"Taking the secret to the grave." Yea the person may take it to their grave but it doesn't mean the secret will never come out.
Totally agree.