Alright ladies...I was looking through his phone and saw an email to his cousin say "Can't right now...wife is on the rampage."
He is right. It was my first night off work after working 4 nights and taking care of the little one during the day. He had the whole weekend off, since football has ended and not one damn thing was done around the house by him or the older two kids.
The dishes are all theirs as I rinse and reuse my own. Front room is a disaster. The toilet is acting up and I was the only one trying to fix it on my night off while he sat on his butt. I did all the dishes and managed to cook dinner for everyone. Get the toilet to at least function enough to use.
All this after being told to get anything I need out of my car because the might being towing it away. All because of a stupid loan we took out to cover the gas bill because he lost his job.
When does it end. I did it all right before and was bitch slapped with an affair.
I don't like being the bitchy wife and I detest that he called me out on it to his family. I know, I know guys talk like that to each other. But I don't run to my family and friends when he is in a shitty mood.
What do I do to control this?