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User Topic: Want to brag a little on my son
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My younger son turned 15 on Tuesday.

And I gotta tell you, the kid is awesome. He has been through hell in the last 3 years. Absolute hell. He was just 12 when JM and I were S the 1st time. He told me later that he contemplated suicide the 2nd time we S.

But he is a strong, smart, sweet natured young man. 6 weeks ago he watched a 21 year old die in a horrible car accident. He's struggled to sleep, and also to keep up in school. He's in 3 honors classes as well as ROTC. And he missed all A/B honor roll by 1 POINT in his biology honors class.

That makes me proud. But the thing that brought tears to my eyes and made me realize what an amazing human being he is happened at church 2 weeks ago. I'm the worship leader and was leading the invitation hymn. We have an invitation at the end of every service, and people can just come to the altar to pray, or speak to the pastor. A friend of mine who is suffering from some serious medical problems came down and knelt. She was obviously very emotional, tears streaming down her face. And my boy got up, put his arm over her shoulders and knelt down beside her. In the midst of his pain and grief, he was able to see outside himself, and reach out to someone else.

Moments like that are heaven on earth to me.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2937 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wow - something right is happening there and your chest must burst with pride


Your beliefs donít make you a better person, your behavior does.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6741 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He sounds like a caring, good hearted person. You must be so proud of him.

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courageous
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wow! That is so sweet and awesome. Thank you for sharing.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


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dameia
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, what a beautiful soul. You should be proud, he sounds like a remarkable young man.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have an amazing young man


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, y'all.

You know, I sometimes have a hard time when I think about the time my addictions stole from my kids, and it's easy to get down on myself.

Moments like this help me to see that I did some stuff right along the way.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2937 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
happenedtome
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful young man you are raising! You have every right to be proud of him! Compassion like your son exhibits is so rare, especially in a teenager.

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