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brknwmn (original poster member #40603) posted at 3:59 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
The shit storms just keep on coming. I left him and moved out of state back with my family. Everyone back "home" are being so sweet to me sending me messages, etc. And then I get a call from former boss. (STBXH and I worked together) and she was just "checking on me". she also felt the need to let me know that all sorts of secrets are coming out of the wood work about STBXH...she said I know he is going to try and win you back but I want you to be careful...you don't know all that he did...
He keeps texting me and trying to conversate & i know that i am being short with him...I plan on talking to him about all of this when I get DS back (it's his weekend with him)...the only reason why I am waiting is b/c i don't want DS to have a crappy time...
this is just too much to handle...if you're a prayer please add me to your list...
Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13
Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:06 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
I am not a prayer, but I will keep you in my thoughts. Sending you SI mojo and strength your way, brknwmn. (((brknwmn)))
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:33 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
Sending prayers. I don't know whether I'd be interested on what the former boss has to say or not... just based on her wanting to be involved.
Take care of yourself. You can handle it, it just takes time. Sending hugs along with the prayers. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 4:55 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
You are in my prayers. {{{brknwmn}}}
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
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