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Nightline: She's a home wrecker report

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 Lovedyoumore (original poster member #35593) posted at 5:54 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Anybody see this? I am sick after watching it. Who do they think they are? The OW was an idiot.

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

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Nest2007 ( member #39532) posted at 11:09 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

I didn't see it as I'm in Australia, but here's a link to the written report and within that is a link to the video.

http://abcnews.go.com/m/story?id=20822156&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fabcnews.go.com%2Ftopics%2Fnews%2Freporters%2Fnightline.htm

I am so damn tempted.

And the gall of those OW claiming to be innocent victims! "He's the one that was married, I wasn't at fault." Bull bloody shit.

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

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Ann124 ( member #29289) posted at 12:03 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

I just watched the video ... I actually loved what I saw of the site. So tempting is correct! But I have moved on but posting there sounds so good as in my opinion anyone that can contemplate being an OW or OM is very broken just as much as our WS. Delusional and full of excuses, is my opinion, and I would have not hesitated posting about the OW and my X's affair right after the A was exposed ...

But now I am in my NB and Divorced ... Karma is taking it's tole on them both and the site would only add drama to my NB.

But I do applaud the woman who created the site ... Love it!

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KatieG ( member #41222) posted at 12:43 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

OMG I just watched it too. That will be up there forever!

DD#1 - Oct 13

"Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive" - CS Lewis

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BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 6:19 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

I love how all of the OW's told ABC that they were innocent victims.

That's freaking hilarious. All of the OW deserve it, and so much more. May they never be hired, anywhere. May they never walk down a street, attend a function, make a friend, or visit family without everyone knowing who they are and what they have done. It haunts the BS forever- it should haunt the OP more.

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."

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 Lovedyoumore (original poster member #35593) posted at 6:39 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

I looked at the site after the show. The comment feed on this particular OW really made me sick. The OW and her minions commented on how the BS is a sociopath and a bitch. I never saw where the OW owned her adulterous actions, just said the WS was to blame, not her.

The only real victims are the BS and the OC.

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

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losingmyground ( member #36070) posted at 6:52 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Didn't see it...but the extra traffic has crashed the site for now.

Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

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painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 7:25 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Scott got pregnant during her affair, but by the time she was four months along, she said she realized the man was never going to leave his wife and she ended their relationship. She said she even called his wife to say she's sorry.

So once she realized he wasn’t going to leave his wife, THEN she was sorry? But if he had abandoned the family that already existed for her, a cheap slut that sleeps with married men – then she wouldn’t have been sorry?

I’ve been following this site for almost a year – some of the stories are unbelievable, and some are heartbreaking.

I admit it – I haven’t posted my OW because if my H found out he wouldn’t be too happy. He wouldn’t care what I did to her, but he wouldn’t want to know that I’m still that into what he did. It isn’t worth the aggravation. If we separate, she’s a goner.

DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

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losingmyground ( member #36070) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

OK..I watched the video on ABC news. Same old blah blah blah from the OW.

He made the vows...I didn't.

He said they were separating.

All the same crap you hear on OW boards. Nothing new...except that they have been called out in public.

I am still a firm believer that if you chose to expose the home wrecker then you HAVE to expose your spouse too.

Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

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BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 7:44 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

Sorry, I could make fun of OW's all day long, they are just that stupid.

I love the "she even called his wife to apologize" thing- like she felt SO unbelievably bad for what she had done.

Well...YEAH.

She slept with a married man.

She didn't give a s*it about the wife or the family that already existed.

She got pregnant and he ditched.

She was then "so sorry."

And now, she harasses the BW every so often to let her know how sorry she is.

*plays the world's tiniest violin*

Poor ow, that poor innocent victim.

All the WS's fault, he basically raped her afterall, right?

*eye roll*

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."

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MediumRare ( member #35128) posted at 9:12 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

" "He is a homewrecker. The home was already wrecked by the time I came into the picture. If you truly love someone else they are not going to stray. I feel that I'm not the one who wrecked the home."

What.A.Dumb.Bitch.

Yah, so I guess that whole "has a wife" and "is married" and "wearing a ring" means the home is wrecked? LOLOLOL.. looks pretty TOGETHER to me as there has been no divorce, eh?

And of course, blaming the BS for their affair is standard operating procedure...

Amazing stuff when see just how deluded and out of touch with reality WS/AP truly are when put in the spotlight. I certainly hope these people get the help they need to deal with these deeply rooted issues they so very clearly have.

There is only one potential situation where an AP is a "victim" and it's in the rare cases a WS is able to completely hide the fact they are married- i.e. dupe the other person they are single (no ring, maybe a second house they take them to, lie about their marriage/family), but even at that, there should be curiosity about meeting their family, or the lost time to cause concern at some point.

BS (ME): 44
WS(HER): 42
9 years
OM#1- 20-something loser, stole bunch of my things after she had sex with him in our bed (no condoms, STDs)
OM#2- 24 year old, unemployed loser, lives with mom & dad
DDay 1/2012
NC 3/20/2012
SGASDay 4/1/2012

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