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User Topic: worth the sacrifice for WS
♀ 15258
Member # 15258
Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just wondering what FWS would say about the sacrifice of values, integrity and family being acceptable while choosing to live a life that goes against everything you once believed and is the enemy of your family? How is the tradeoff worth all the losses? I write here b/c it seems the ICR forum doesn't get much response. What is the payoff for WS in A at the sacrifice of everything they once lived for?

Posts: 423 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: nj
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Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not a WS and I'm also a long way from d-day so take this for what it's worth. I think that most ws's don't even think of the possible losses when they have A's. And if they do they just hope they'll never get caught. It's a very selfish act and one they think will bring them only pleasure

Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6714 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm faced with the fact that my WS probably had an exit affair. Not sure though because she was more than careful not to get caught and never had plans on telling me about it. Even after we have laid everything out on the table and talked about our problems in the marriage, she still wants out.

Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Posts: 534 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
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