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No12turn2 posted 11/8/2013 13:42 PM

I have this smirk and a sarcastic laugh that REALLY drives her insane. What are some of the actions or words that drive your WS crazy?

crazyblindsided posted 11/8/2013 13:44 PM

When I call him out on his conflict avoidance or passive aggressive behavior.

No12turn2 posted 11/8/2013 14:02 PM

Another thing she hates is when I talk about things I have read. She claims to be a unique case and refuses to be grouped under the same category or label as any other WS would be. I wonder how many other WS's actually thought this?

SisterMilkshake posted 11/8/2013 14:10 PM

FWH insists he isn't and never was "broken". Irritates the crap out of him. Doesn't like to read threads that I wrote about him and people refer to him as broken. Or even if it is a thread that generally calls WS's broken.

He also got annoyed when the OW referred to him as its "boyfriend". It bugs him when I call it the "girlfriend".

crazyblindsided posted 11/8/2013 14:20 PM

Another thing she hates is when I talk about things I have read. She claims to be a unique case and refuses to be grouped under the same category or label as any other WS would be. I wonder how many other WS's actually thought this?

Oh yeah mine falls into this category too. Says you can't always believe what you read or what people tell you. Well WH I am sure the author with the PHD has more knowledge about A's than you do.

typical

No12turn2 posted 11/8/2013 14:22 PM

WW hates it when I say the OMs name or any nickname she used to call them.

painfulpast posted 11/8/2013 14:26 PM

Haha – where to start. If I look away and just say ‘whatever’ to something he’s trying to tell me. HATES it.

Mine also thinks he’s not like other WSs. Yeah, they’re all so damned special – except that they’re all the same. How come nothing they say shocks anyone here? Because there are only about 3 affair stories. You just have to figure out which one is your WS. Although, mine is ‘different’ because he was just toying with OW. He NEVER liked her in any way. Yeah, whatever.

And reading about infidelity – the worst. He’s convinced I’m going to just wallow in it and that reading about it is keeping me in it instead of moving on.

LetMeRollIt posted 11/8/2013 18:22 PM

Mine is also convinced she's a unique case. Also hates it when I mention things I know about OM. This pleases me greatly. I'm working on it. :)

TXMommy posted 11/8/2013 18:30 PM

When I tell him he is selfish. And, this transfers from not only the A, but our entire lives together... I just never saw it until after the A.

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