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Topic: Prayers and/or good thoughts please
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authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 |  Posted: 12:25 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 |     |
A year ago SIL was diagnosed with breast cancer. Double mastectomy, chemo, radiation, the whole nine yards.
She had her final reconstructive surgery done a couple of weeks ago and on Thursday she developed an infection. She's okay, she's home on antibiotics and resting but the doctor had to clean out the infection and take the implant out, put in a drain, all that fun stuff. After the infection is gone she will go back to square one with the reconstruction on the left side.
If you could spare any good thoughts for her I'd appreciate it. She's been through a lot and was looking forward to this holiday season and being healthy. If she heals well, with no complications, all should be okay.
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54940 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2 | | Posted: 12:37 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Always love and prayers to you and your family...I really hope she has a speedy and healthy recovery.
(((AN & SIL)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 210060 | Registered: May 2002 |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 12:39 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Count me in, AN. I wish the best to your SIL and family.
fBH (me) - 70+, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 15790 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois |
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341 | | Posted: 12:41 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sending strength and healing thoughts.
((((AN & SIL))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Posts: 6059 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU |
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101 | | Posted: 12:56 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
((((an & sil)))).
That stinks!!!! More mojo and prayers heading your way.
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Posts: 12867 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 12:58 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers.
Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:59 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sending it all, an. (((((SIL)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40065 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 2:17 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Thank you, SI friends.
She has come such a long way and she is discouraged by the setback, as we all are. Last year's holidays were sad and scary, and this year we will make them great no matter what. After the new year she will go in for more surgery.
I appreciate the prayers very much  .
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54940 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 4:33 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Good thoughts coming her way. Cancer sucks.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9113 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 4:42 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
(((SIL, AN, & family)))
Sending good thoughts, prayers, and mojo.
Posts: 49742 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Gottagetthrough
27325
Member # 27325 | | Posted: 6:16 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
good thoughts coming your way and your sil's way.
Posts: 2347 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 8:13 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers for healing and a healthy holiday.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6705 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
AgainandAgain
♀ 34835
Member # 34835 | | Posted: 8:41 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
This is so sad. It breaks my heart when someone comes so far and has a setback.
Many prayers coming her way. I am praying for a speedy and pain free recovery!
Posts: 246 | Registered: Feb 2012 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 9:09 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Good Thoughts and Healing Prayers!
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25886 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
weeping willow
♀ 22800
Member # 22800 | | Posted: 10:30 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sending prayers and healing thoughts.
((((AN, SIL & family))))
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
Posts: 1798 | Registered: Feb 2009 |
karmahappens
♀ 35846
Member # 35846 | | Posted: 11:20 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Always have room for more good thoughts.
(((AN and family)))
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
Posts: 4011 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts |
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823 | | Posted: 11:50 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
{{{AN}}} {{{SIL}}}
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 9:02 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Sending positive thoughts!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 9:03 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Sending mojo for your SIL. I know it's been a terribly hard year for her, and for your family. It's almost over. She'll be well again soon and this year will be a year to celebrate. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Posts: 51772 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455 | | Posted: 10:20 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013 | |
sending prayers and Mojo in abundance. I hope recovery is swift and complete.
BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 5100 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest |
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