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User Topic: How Did I Pick Such a Cheater?
♀ 40896
Member # 40896
Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was definitely a flirter. I just didn't realize how much.

Me- BW 31, WH- 29
M 11 yrs Together 13
2 kids (special needs)
Last Dday 9/26/13 EA w/ 19 yr old OW, too many prior EAs to list, one he kissed
My value hasn't decreased based on his inability to see my worth.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United States
♀ 37776
Member # 37776
Default  Posted: 2:25 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to say, even looking back on our dating and married history, I had NO clue until we were married~ 20 years. During the next few years I felt like we weren't "right" but he would never say anything other than that work was stressing him out. A few years later he tells me that he had been unfaithful, felt the need to tell me as I had been having concerning issues with my lady parts. Initially he wanted to leave and a few hours later was sobbing & asking for another chance. His cheating was with strippers/hookers so we didn't have to deal with an OW. We are trying to R, in MC & IC. Even looking back I would never in a million years have thought my H would become a WH:( Jamie

BS early 50's Wh also early 50's. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great teens/young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 25+. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2015!

Posts: 112 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: USA
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