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User Topic: While looking at pies...
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a nice conversation about pastries, etc.

It felt good to have a possible Friendship in my Moving Forward.

He was engaging, humorous, and easy on the eyes despite being nearly 8 years older.

We exchanged phone numbers and I had a good 2 hour chat w/ him today. No more online dating stuff for me ------> E ver.

The conversation was lively and honest. To the point that we can only be friends, nothing more, nor am I seeking out a new H.

Just imagine...while looking at pastries.

My D will be final in 3 weeks....relief!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25439 | Registered: Sep 2005
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26463 | Registered: Aug 2011
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love hearing this!!!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
numbandnauseous
♀ 34525
Member # 34525
Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for posting great stories like this!

It gives those of us who haven't yet started our NB hope!

So happy for you - enjoy!!!!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
NaiveAgain
♀ 20849
Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds lovely!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15537 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
jjct
♂ 17484
Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pastries, ETCETERA?

Look at those buns, hun
See how they sugar and shine,
I'd like to take a lick oops look at that,
if they were only mine...

A swirling earlysweet drizzle,
so soft and warm on my tongue,
and doughysoft oft on mind's palate,
the hell! Pasties make me feel young!

A squeeze for your cakes of the roundmound,
slurp sounds coming close to your ear,
donut think I think this way public too much,
it cakes all kinds of crazy I fear.

We knead to get out more happy,
fruitfilling some fresh nutty dreams,
when warm from the oven a heartfeels,
the scents so pleasing mind beams!


Posts: 6825 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How fun!!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4279 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Take2
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Member # 23890
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

at jjct: talk like that will start a riot on the bus!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4168 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jj...you are quite the naughty lil poet!

yes, and prior to the pastries, I had a short chat with another gent in the meat dept over cooking pork roast!
When we verbally traded recipes and methods...he slow cooked his w/ a pkt of "seasoning" while I roast mine after studding it with sliced fresh garlic cloves & Italian herbs, etc and et al...he told me:
"Why you are ruining it"!!!
Well, I knew right then and there that he was not gonna be any **New Friend** of mine!

Live and learn...

Sorry about the smilie emoticon screwing up in my first post.

Hmmm...maybe I should go wander around some computer shops?

Techs are just so very...interesting!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25439 | Registered: Sep 2005
numbandnauseous
♀ 34525
Member # 34525
Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my, jjct!!!! Hysterical - you are quite the poet!

I think you got a little carried away and let your true intentions be known when you substituted "pasties" for "pastries," though.

And, since "pasties make me feel young," will you soon be posting pictures of yourself in pasties?!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Clever, n&n!

And a great fund raising idea for SI!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25439 | Registered: Sep 2005
jjct
♂ 17484
Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm up for it - even after arguing with r's...
If pastries start a riot, can you guys imagine the meat dept?
I AIN'T GOIN THERE

We can't have the bus breakin down...

Posts: 6825 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
dreamlife
♀ 8142
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, groan....I think I just slipped a disc while
It was great to come from my doc appt and read this!
(As she eats her vegetarian dinner... )


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25439 | Registered: Sep 2005
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