So sorry. You're right to be hurt. If he is still
in contact with her, then you need to remove
him from your life and home. Not necessarily
permanently, because sometimes they come
around. But you will have to move forward
as if he won't. It's hard, but it will save you and
your family from certain hell. I see your tag
line says you have 2 special needs kids? How
are the doing? I see on her a lot of men who
have A, and their BS is battling a disease, in
chemo, just suffered the death of a loved one
and other health crises. They have had an A
because they can't deal with the reality of
their difficult life. Do you think that is the case
Here? If so your odds are better than most that
he will turn around. But you have to be willing
To end the marriage in order to get there.