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worried_lady posted 11/10/2013 10:39 AM

I have been single for so long and just dumb when it comes to men. There is this guy I have admired from far for years. I mean YEARS. There is a rodeo this week-end and the finals are this afternoon. He works with the livestock for the rodeo as a hobby. I went out dancing last night and we danced quite a bit ( love to dance with him) As the evening ended he said you ought to come out to the rodeo tomorrow it is the finals and it will be really good. I like rodeos. Should I go or was he just saying this to be nice and trying to make the ending of the evening less awkward. See, I am 52 been single forever and just dumb.

heartbroken30 posted 11/10/2013 10:44 AM

Go! Have a great time! Try not to have any expectations and have fun. You never know.

Take2 posted 11/10/2013 10:46 AM

If you like rodeos go. Just try to rein in any expectation of roping the livestock . That said, I wouldn't approach him, wave if you see him and then leave it up to him and see if he approaches you.

Note: This sage advice comes from someone who hasn't dated in 30 years!

nowiknow23 posted 11/10/2013 11:13 AM

Not dumb - rusty.

Go!

FaithFool posted 11/10/2013 11:17 AM

Aaand what exactly is wrong about submersing oneself in cowboy eye candy for an afternoon?

Take2 posted 11/10/2013 11:25 AM

Hell Faithfool! Now I want to go to the rodeo!

worried_lady posted 11/10/2013 11:51 AM

Yes the way FaithFool stated it makes it so much better. Just changing my way of thinking. As far as the dumb vs rusty I will still worry about that. It is so hard to decipher the animal known as MAN. UGH just not good at it. Sometimes it seems as if I am on the AM frequency and everybody else is on the FM frequency

FaithFool posted 11/10/2013 15:36 PM

Well if you google Louis CK you'll get a giggle about that...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4LkrQCyIz8

worried_lady posted 11/10/2013 20:35 PM

OK so I went. I had so much fun!!

It was all indoors, they had a vendor area and tons of shopping. The eye candy was everywhere. Wranglers on almost every man. I felt a little bit like a dog just staring but my goodness the sites WOW. I did see the guy - he was working with the cattle. I stopped by where he was at after it was over and we talked for probably 30 minutes and then he had to get back to work. So who knows but it was fun and I am glad I got out of my comfort zone and all I can say is I like Wrangler jeans. Ladies I tell ya this is the thing to do. I think there is a circuit we could follow WOW

numbandnauseous posted 11/10/2013 21:39 PM

Thanks for the follow-up, worried! So glad you went and had fun. Also glad you posted and got good advice. Enjoy your NB!

confused girl posted 11/11/2013 07:12 AM

OMG - you have become a Buckle Bunny!!!! lol. Have fun!

Take2 posted 11/11/2013 07:49 AM

Good for you Worried - one small step outside your comfort zone and a there's a whole world of wranglers out there!

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