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hopeandchange posted 11/10/2013 10:41 AM

Stbxww and I were married 22 years ago today. We are sharing our home till she moves next month. Her betrayals are so fresh in my mind today Bringing the OM into our home and having sex on our sofa (now gone and replaced)

Grom the best day of my life to the worst day of my life. Hopefully, tomorrow will be better

H&C

IrishLass518 posted 11/10/2013 11:26 AM

(((hopeandchange))) I hope you do have a better tomorrow

Merlin posted 11/10/2013 11:34 AM

H&C,

Anniversaries, holidays, birthdays and other special dates seem to lose their meaning when you are dealing with s*** like infidelity and divorce.

And having a wayward under the same roof was among the toughest things I did early on.

Both of these are like trying to live somewhere when all the oxygen has been sucked out of your life.

It's gets better.

Peace & strength.

[This message edited by Merlin at 11:35 AM, November 10th (Sunday)]

nowiknow23 posted 11/10/2013 11:41 AM

((((H&C))))

changeofheart31 posted 11/10/2013 11:48 AM

This day is hard, I understand how you feel! My would have been 5 year anniversary is Friday. I go from angry to sad to just plain numb. ALL I ASK IS WHY?? WHAT DID I DO?? WHAT COULD HAVE I DONE BETTER?? but the truth is nothing!! it was all on him he made the choice to cheat and now like you I am left to pick up what is left. It will heal I am told so until that time lets just go one day at a time. We will get through this and we are not alone even during the worst days..

Artemisia posted 11/10/2013 16:17 PM

Thinking about you today hopeandchange. My heart goes out to you.

caregiver9000 posted 11/10/2013 18:26 PM

(((hugs)))