For a long while, I noticed a similar theme with all of XWH's "friends". Every one of them tried to befriend my kids. I actually caught one of them asking my then 10 year old daughter about who her dad's other "friends" are and if any of them spend the night.
Needless to say, they all got shut down hard and fast. Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done
DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs
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