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SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 9:40 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
This might be very triggery for some. Those much further out may find it funny. I can't believe I actually found it funny. I don't feel infidelity is at all funny. Maybe because of the way it ends I felt it was funny. Or, because I really like "What Does the Fox Say?" IDK.
Hope I am not offending anyone by posting the link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foMQX9ZExsE
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 9:57 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
I think this is hilarious!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 10:33 PM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Whew! I am glad you did, N_G, and that I am not alone in finding the humor. ( I know some did in F & G, but we couldn't really talk about it. 
)
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
forlornheart ( member #40726) posted at 2:18 AM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
I'm only about 10 weeks out from D day. It made me laugh. And I needed one! So thanks!! 
Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 2:22 AM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
I started out all 
but then I was 
and by the end it was all
misskirby ( member #34594) posted at 2:28 AM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
We saw that on SNL last week. At first it was like, whoa, uncomfortable, but then we definitely both cracked up. And yeah, that might be because we too really liked the original. Slight T/J-if you search for the original makers of that video, they have quite a few more that are also pretty funny!
Me-BS, Late 20's
Him-WH, Late 20's
M 9 years, together 14
DS and DD
D-Day 1/16/12
"Long is the way And hard, that out of Hell leads up to Light" -John Milton, Paradise Lost
SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 1:49 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
(((forlornheart))) You are very strong. Good for you that you were able to laugh. When I was able to laugh, I knew I was going to heal. Humor really helped me get through a lot of this.
SG, and misskirby, I will have to go search for those.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:42 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Love it. Saw it on SNL--and laughed so hard. Like I just did.
(Progress, no?)
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
losingmyground ( member #36070) posted at 3:04 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Love it!! It will get me through all the repeats of the 11 yr old watching "What does to fox say". Of course I hopeful don't start mouthing they new lyrics where my husband can hear me.
Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation
deena ( member #27275) posted at 3:05 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
:(
The video is not allowed here
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 3:08 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
(((deena))) One day, you will laugh. I promise.
But we all know how it hurts before you can--and I'm sorry. 
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
chopper ( member #5772) posted at 3:14 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
It's not available here but they are others. i suppose this is it
http://youtu.be/nFPqNEHeca0
Me BS(52) (39 at DD)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52) (44 at DD)
2 Kids S(27) D(24) (14 and 11 at DD)
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."–George MacDonald
"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –
vivere ( member #34465) posted at 12:25 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Sister, your link was not available in Australia for some reason?
I guess this is the same since it is a SNL parody.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jc_facbFDa8
I likey the ending
You are responsible for your own happiness :)
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 12:42 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Love it.
All my kids are into the song, even I sing it.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
prowoman ( member #40761) posted at 12:54 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
had to laugh. didn't think i could but it's just too relevant. so want to send the link to my WH right now.
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 1:24 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
This is flipping hysterical!
Thanks so much posting in General. I also saw the OP in F&Gs (thanks SO much also to that poster too :))
Sister, altho the video didn't bother me at all, I SO appreciate you giving the "trigger" warning to others. Years ago I would have NOT appreciated the humor.
Good job and thank you for the laugh!
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 1:33 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
To Crushed1... Thank you! 
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 1:45 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
chopper and vivere, I am so sorry my international friends that the link didn't work for you. Yes, you are right it is the SNL parody "What Does My Girl Say".
solus, YAY for progress. You always sound so strong and practical with the most fantastic insight, I forget that you are dealing with pain and hurt, too. (((solus)))
losing,
(((deena)))
Sam, you'll have to sing the new words now.........in your head. I was shopping in Costco today singing "Who that, Who that, Who that bitch"!
prowoman, I am so happy you could laugh. I know you are going through a really tough time right now, glad you can get some respite. (((prowoman)))
appreciate you giving the "trigger" warning to others. Years ago I would have NOT appreciated the humor.
mom of 2, yes, like you, I wouldn't have been able to handle this in the beginning of my journey either.
Crushed1... Thank you!
Ditto!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
I usually am super duper triggered by infidelity, but this made me giggle. Thank you SMS!!!
I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:49 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Did none of you notice the slap?
I guess it's ok.
No worries.
I have not laughed at anything snl has put out in 25 years.
Fuck them then. hahaha. so funny.
slapaguy's funny.
FUCK SNL.
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