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User Topic: Ugh!!!!!!!!!!! (venting)
♀ 38414
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Stop  Posted: 12:13 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i HATE when he creeps up into my dreams!!!! (BH knows, i told him first thing this morning, but we were not really about to discuss it as i was having to leave for work)
It was not a sexual dream.... it was a dream that i still had his number in my phone and that some girl (who was apparently my best friend but i do not recognize her as anyone i have ever even met) had my phone and was reading old convo's between us and someone else text me, she went to reply for me and accidently text OM instead of the person who text me. he replied back with "why the hell are you texting me" and i told her not to reply. i went outside to smoke a cigarette and he was standing on my front porch. yelling at me about texting him and then telling me he missed me. i woke up about this point......

i have posted about my dreams before and been told by many that they are not controlable.... but UGHHHHH I JUST FREAKING HATE THEM!!!!!!

Posts: 277 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: TN
♀ 33886
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah yes, the dreams. One of the lousy side effects of our actions. They like to sneak up and slap you around. It gets better with time. If I dream of my AP, it's very rare and usually bizarre and pointless.

This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand how you feel. ..I had a dream about my xap last week and it left me feel angry and icky. I haven't dreamt about him in a long time and don't understand why I suddenly did....people have also told me its uncontrollable and I hope they are right! I also told my bh about the dream and he didn't say to much...but then the next morning asked me if I had dreamt about him again cuz I had been talking in my sleep

But what if I fall?
Oh Darling, but what if you fly?

Posts: 1269 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
♀ 41231
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh, I know how you feel. Those dreams just make you feel more guilt and more shame. Even if the dream was innocent, you still feel that anger. I promise those dreams will fade.

"The most difficult phase of life is not when no one understand you; It's when you don't understand yourself." - Unknown

Posts: 27 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: East Coast
♀ 38414
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to know I'm not alone.

When I got home BS asked me to explain the dream in detail which I had no problem with, and then didn't say much else. You are right, it left me feeling pissed (at myself and him) and icky even though it wasn't a sexual dream. THOSE thank god went away after the first couple of months and knock on wood they haven't returned.

Posts: 277 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: TN
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