Member # 27539
| Posted: 5:15 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
My SO and I went to Cape May for a long deserved mini vaca. It was the first time we've gotten away in almost 2 yrs! Well, he proposed and we are engaged!!! Whole nine yards, called my dad, got a beautiful ring, and went down on his knee. I just love this man and how thoughtful, caring, and wonderful he is. We won't be getting married any time soon, our kids are coming first and are an hour apart and pretty integrated into their communities/school. And the other parents are where we each are living. So we are staying put until his son is driving to HS (2-3 yrs) and then we will get married and he will moving into my house until my kids are a little older. I know that we've had our trials (death of both of his parents) and less tragic stressors (our exs). He has done everything to reassure me about his boundaries w his ex and has included me with everything in his life (financial and logistical decisions). SOOOOOOO much different than my marriage, I have so much more hope!
Me - 43
2 kids, 10 and 12
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1322 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Member # 33226
| Posted: 5:18 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Wow! Congratulations, honey!!!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28180 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 20849
| Posted: 5:20 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15788 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 5929
| Posted: 5:28 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Keep calm and carry on.
Posts: 49483 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
Member # 22870
| Posted: 5:37 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7979 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:01 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations!! I am so happy for you!
Posts: 38199 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 2959
| Posted: 6:47 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulation on anoth
er New Beginning, Million Pieces
Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
Member # 36579
| Posted: 7:13 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations!! Love reading good news around here
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
Posts: 184 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 35695
| Posted: 7:41 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations I'm so happy for you xox
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
Posts: 484 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 30346
| Posted: 8:09 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Posts: 4421 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 10552
| Posted: 8:16 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congrats! How exciting! Happy for you both.
PS: Ring pic?
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15505 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 39451
| Posted: 8:36 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Everyone here is cheering here for you! Congratulations!
M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met 20 yrs younger girl online.
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!
Posts: 178 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 15584
| Posted: 9:14 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4281 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 34477
| Posted: 10:47 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013|
Congratulations! That is some truly wonderful news.
Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.
Posts: 699 | Registered: Jan 2012
Member # 34525
| Posted: 12:13 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Member # 40896
| Posted: 12:18 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congratulations, gives me hope for the future!
Me- BW 31, WH- 29
M 11 yrs Together 13
2 kids (special needs)
Last Dday 9/26/13 EA w/ 19 yr old OW, too many prior EAs to list, one he kissed
My value hasn't decreased based on his inability to see my worth.
Posts: 38 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United States
Member # 16958
| Posted: 12:24 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
congrats! May your marriage last forever and bring you much joy!
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Posts: 943 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
Member # 13813
| Posted: 12:36 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
Posts: 2436 | Registered: Mar 2007
Member # 27148
| Posted: 8:43 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2996 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 34697
| Posted: 8:58 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013|
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012
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