yesterday morning my wife and I went to therapy and discussed quite a few issues we had been struggling with, we both came out of therapy feeling emotionally close
reestablishing intimacy has been a challenge for us
so it was my thought to break this barrier between us.
I went to V.I.P ( a specialty shop) and purchased a gift, a vibrator.
Then I decided to get a card to go along with the gift. As I searched through the cards, I couldn't find and appropriate match.
Suddenly, I looked down and saw the get well cards and started laughing out loud. I purchased a card that simply said, "Get Well Soon".
I gave the card to my wife feeling embarrassed and nervous about her response. At first she looked perplexed and then she laughed. Still feeling embarrassed I handed her the gift. Then we both laughed. We still haven't stopped laughing.
I was pretty sure she was ready to see the humor of this gift. I took a chance and it seemed to have been worth it.
We laughed together.