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Rabecca posted 11/12/2013 12:50 PM

I hadn’t even thought twice about it until today. I honestly didn’t realize what day it was until my well-meaning SIL (WH’s brother’s wife) sent me a text to make sure I was ok today. It hit me like a ton of bricks and I just couldn’t control the flood. I haven’t cried over it all this much in over a month. I was starting to feel better and like I was making progress moving on. I had thought about our anniversary coming up over a week ago and rolled my eyes and shrugged my shoulders. I really was not expecting to feel this much pain.

MovingUpward posted 11/12/2013 13:12 PM

It is ok. Dealing with the aftermath is a like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs. Take the moment to cry and release. Don't beat yourself up for reacting to the day. Healing is often 2 steps forward and 1 back.

Drowninginitall posted 11/12/2013 13:38 PM

Hugs to you today. It is my anniversary today too :(

Rabecca posted 11/12/2013 14:22 PM

Thanks guys. It was just so shocking. Hugs Back to you Drowinginitall. What anniversary if you don't mind me asking?

Drowninginitall posted 11/12/2013 17:12 PM

I haven't had the time and mental clarity to even write a bio yet. Married 13 yrs, together better part of 19. 3 DC 5yr olds and a 2yr old.

Rabecca posted 11/13/2013 15:21 PM

I am so sorry. None of us want to be here but I am grateful we all can be here for each other.

Raven96 posted 11/13/2013 15:24 PM

(((Rabecca and DIA)))