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Rabecca (original poster member #41076) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
I hadn’t even thought twice about it until today. I honestly didn’t realize what day it was until my well-meaning SIL (WH’s brother’s wife) sent me a text to make sure I was ok today. It hit me like a ton of bricks and I just couldn’t control the flood. I haven’t cried over it all this much in over a month. I was starting to feel better and like I was making progress moving on. I had thought about our anniversary coming up over a week ago and rolled my eyes and shrugged my shoulders. I really was not expecting to feel this much pain.
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 7:12 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
It is ok. Dealing with the aftermath is a like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs. Take the moment to cry and release. Don't beat yourself up for reacting to the day. Healing is often 2 steps forward and 1 back.
Drowninginitall ( member #40968) posted at 7:38 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Hugs to you today. It is my anniversary today too :(
BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16
Rabecca (original poster member #41076) posted at 8:22 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Thanks guys. It was just so shocking. Hugs Back to you Drowinginitall. What anniversary if you don't mind me asking?
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Drowninginitall ( member #40968) posted at 11:12 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
I haven't had the time and mental clarity to even write a bio yet. Married 13 yrs, together better part of 19. 3 DC 5yr olds and a 2yr old.
BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16
Rabecca (original poster member #41076) posted at 9:21 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013
I am so sorry. None of us want to be here but I am grateful we all can be here for each other.
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Raven96 ( member #40298) posted at 9:24 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
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