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Topic: Anniversary Today
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Rabecca
♀ 41076
Member # 41076 |  Posted: 12:50 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
I hadn’t even thought twice about it until today. I honestly didn’t realize what day it was until my well-meaning SIL (WH’s brother’s wife) sent me a text to make sure I was ok today. It hit me like a ton of bricks and I just couldn’t control the flood. I haven’t cried over it all this much in over a month. I was starting to feel better and like I was making progress moving on. I had thought about our anniversary coming up over a week ago and rolled my eyes and shrugged my shoulders. I really was not expecting to feel this much pain.
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 1:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
It is ok. Dealing with the aftermath is a like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs. Take the moment to cry and release. Don't beat yourself up for reacting to the day. Healing is often 2 steps forward and 1 back.
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 54367 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
Drowninginitall
♀ 40968
Member # 40968 | | Posted: 1:38 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Hugs to you today. It is my anniversary today too :(
BW 40
Married 2000
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16/16
Posts: 214 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
Rabecca
♀ 41076
Member # 41076 | | Posted: 2:22 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Thanks guys. It was just so shocking. Hugs Back to you Drowinginitall. What anniversary if you don't mind me asking?
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca |
Drowninginitall
♀ 40968
Member # 40968 | | Posted: 5:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I haven't had the time and mental clarity to even write a bio yet. Married 13 yrs, together better part of 19. 3 DC 5yr olds and a 2yr old.
BW 40
Married 2000
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16/16
Posts: 214 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
Rabecca
♀ 41076
Member # 41076 | | Posted: 3:21 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I am so sorry. None of us want to be here but I am grateful we all can be here for each other.
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca |
Raven96
♀ 40298
Member # 40298 | | Posted: 3:24 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((Rabecca and DIA)))
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
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