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notwarmorfuzzy posted 11/12/2013 15:02 PM

One year ago today my world came crashing down on me....DDay! where am I a year later? Well I've been through such a rollercoaster. I decided to divorce and that was tough, I've been up and down, it still pains me if I allow myself to think about my past too much. I still cry... I still mourn what was once my 20 year marriage... one baby step at a time. I became best friends with the OW boyfriend... and actually I would consider him more than just a friend he's so understanding. But I'm guarded... and still healing... for those who want to know where youll be at in a year... it's still painful, just not as bad, youre still in mourning but I've accepted this is my new reality and need to make the best of a horrible situation. This week leading up to the one year mark has been super hard, emotional and overall heavy on my heart. But it's here now... TaDaaaa... I survived a year!!!! and that alone I am thankful for...

me-BS-39
WH-39
M-20 year
2 kids 20&17, my 20yo is expecting her 1st baby
Dday 11/12/2012-the day the veil was lifted
Divorce final 3/10/2013

Williesmom posted 11/12/2013 15:26 PM

BrokenSpirit50 posted 11/12/2013 19:00 PM

Dear notwarmorfuzzy, congratulations for having the courage to survive the year 1. It amazes me how fast time flies. In one month It will be 2 years since the end of my 32 year M and the beginning of my new still unchartered life. Blows my mind.

Take care.

fraeuken posted 11/12/2013 19:13 PM

Congratulations. I have survived one year of separation and most recently one year anniversary of him moving out. Life is not easy but full of opportunities and peace of mind, emotionally, spiritually and financially.