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New Beginnings :
One Year Later......

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 notwarmorfuzzy (original poster new member #37868) posted at 9:02 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013

One year ago today my world came crashing down on me....DDay! where am I a year later? Well I've been through such a rollercoaster. I decided to divorce and that was tough, I've been up and down, it still pains me if I allow myself to think about my past too much. I still cry... I still mourn what was once my 20 year marriage... one baby step at a time. I became best friends with the OW boyfriend... and actually I would consider him more than just a friend he's so understanding. But I'm guarded... and still healing... for those who want to know where youll be at in a year... it's still painful, just not as bad, youre still in mourning but I've accepted this is my new reality and need to make the best of a horrible situation. This week leading up to the one year mark has been super hard, emotional and overall heavy on my heart. But it's here now... TaDaaaa... I survived a year!!!! and that alone I am thankful for...

me-BS-39

WH-39

M-20 year

2 kids 20&17, my 20yo is expecting her 1st baby

Dday 11/12/2012-the day the veil was lifted

Divorce final 3/10/2013

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:26 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013

Dear notwarmorfuzzy, congratulations for having the courage to survive the year 1. It amazes me how fast time flies. In one month It will be 2 years since the end of my 32 year M and the beginning of my new still unchartered life. Blows my mind.

Take care.

Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012

Me BS 58
Him WH 59

Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018

Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si

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fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 1:13 AM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013

Congratulations. I have survived one year of separation and most recently one year anniversary of him moving out. Life is not easy but full of opportunities and peace of mind, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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