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PhoenixRising88 posted 11/14/2013 08:54 AM

I wanted to tell everyone in R forum goodbye. After a rocky two years, H and I have decided to end our marraige.. I say we've decided, I've actually decided, and basically he doesn't want me to hurt anymore so he's letting go gracefully.

H has moved into upstairs room. I'll be moving out of our home between Christmas and New Years. There's no bitterness or rancor, just a sad recognition that some things just can't be overcome. It's as amicable a split as there could be, for which I am grateful. I'll be moving my postings to divorce/separation forum.

This turned out to be a dealbreaker for me. I can at least say I hung in for almost two years and tried my dead level best to get through this. But I just can't.

The main emotions are sadness, and a strange relief.

I want to wish everyone in R forum the absolute best in their journeys and hope to see none of you in D/S forum!

Tred posted 11/14/2013 09:01 AM

Best of luck to you Wanna. It makes me wonder if that old adage of "It's better to have tried and failed, then never tried at all" is true. Sounds like it is in your case.

sisoon posted 11/14/2013 10:59 AM

Not al progress is joyful. I'm sorry it isn't for you right now. That sense of relief, though, sounds like a sign this is the best choice for you. Best wishes to you.

Skan posted 11/14/2013 16:43 PM

I'm so sorry that it didn't work out. I am, in a strange sense, happy for you, in that you have discovered what you need to do to move on. (((hugs)))

jjsr posted 11/14/2013 16:49 PM

I am sorry R didn't work out for you and your marriage. I hope you find the happiness you are searching for.

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