So had a great night and morning. He offered to write a timeline this weekend- written and detailed, not orally and promoted by me.
In my efforts to "help" him, I decided to check our phone history.
Some new things I learned.
They started talking on June 10th- not "around Fourth of July" as he had said.
I asked for - and thought we had agreed upon NC on July 27 or 28.
Phone records show texts and phone calls on August 10, 11 ad 12. Mostly from her and he did share one them at the time.
Then- August 20th. She calls. He calls her back. And they talk for 50 effing minutes.
Since then- nothin that I don't know about. And I still have some piecing together to do as far as July when they were going strong. I have 5 pages.
And I know she has another number that I don't know- because there are texts that I saw that don't have a matching record in my "log."
I am narrowing it down to numbers I don't recognize and then going to match it up with the times I know she called.
This sucks. I am obsessed. And after such a good night. :(
I am goin to sit tight with my new found info. I will give him a chance to be honest with me- before I tell him I have the records.
Is that wrong? Am I being dishonest?
My whole goal here is to really demonstrate how much he HASN'T told me. He seems to think he has done so well. I keep trying to tell him that there are so many fuzzy spaces.
Well- he just called. She texted again- he read it to me and we talked. I asked him when the last time he responded to her was. He gave me a date much earlier than their 50 minute conversation. Crap.
Now we have to talk. I told him we needed to cover some stuff tonight- did not tell him I have phone records.
We'll see how it goes.
[This message edited by Wondertwin at 2:19 PM, November 14th (Thursday)]