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User Topic: DD17 really gets it...
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We were chatting late into the night last night, as we often do, and the subject of her father came up. She refers to him as either her "biological father" or "he who shall remain nameless." She was talking to me about a conversation she had with her older brother regarding some things XPOS was sending to DS, but he would only send it to DS in a way such that "your mother" (me) would not be able to touch it. Juvenile, yeah I know. Anyway, DD said he had told her similar things in the past, i.e., I will give you this but I don't ever want your mother to have it. DD said, without a bat of an eye, "He is the one that cheated on you all those years, but he wants to act like YOU did something wrong when everyone knows it was him. I guess he needs to blame someone else because he couldn't keep it in his pants." Bingo! I told her he will likely continue to blame me, and that's okay because I know the truth and that is all that matters. She responded, "Mom, we ALL know the truth."

Love that kid...

Oh, and the things he is trying to send DS in such a way that I won't touch them? Well, DS will be moving back home when he gets out of the military next summer and all those sacred "things" will be coming right back to my house...and XPOS knows he will be living with me... childish idiot...

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 4796 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great kid!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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♀ 40115
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. What great kids. Obviously take after their mother.

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3391 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 40898
Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great kid! I don't know that mine completely understands it but I have told him that likely wen he has his own family one day he will understand. As much as I would like to say what a douche his father is I don't. I just say he is still your father.

me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.
Divorced: Jan 27,2015 (Ds 16th BDay)He rem

Posts: 118 | Registered: Oct 2013
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